I just read about one of the "reality show" moms pushing her six-year-young daughter to practice her dancing until this child cried in utter exhaustion and overwhelm.
Why do some moms do this?
This is poor mothering. Is it the mom who wants to succeed in whatever she is shoving her child to excel at? Usually, yes, absolutely.
Often the mom -- or dad -- who unceasingly and uncaringly rides her child beyond the child's capacity, is someone who lacks love for herself. Often, this kind of mom is feeling deficient in some area. Yes, the mom may say she wants the best for her child, that no one supported her (the mom) so she (the mom) is being supportive of her child. This is a smokescreen for callousness.
It is vital that we moms encourage our children. It is imperative that we moms recognize the talents, abilities, tendencies of our children, and empower our children to realize the fruition of their gifts. As well, as good moms, we also help our children with their challenges.
To work a child -- or anyone -- till that child is exhausted and spent physically and emotionally is both physical and emotional abuse.
Whether on a reality show or in "real" life, this is obvious.
Yes, every person has her or his own breaking point, and mom has to be astute enough to avoid confusing true encouragement with abusive bullying.
When mom, or the "star" of a reality show, or anyone else is the bully, we have to call it what it is. Child abuse. Bullying. Disparaging a small one so the adult "looks good." In actuality, the adult, the ostensible grown-up, actually looks pathetic, forceful, manipulative, dominating, cruel, unfeeling, and a host more.
This differs greatly from mom or a teacher being lax, careless, lazy, overly permissive.
Teaching a child internal discipline so the child innately looks to excel is what's needed. This is better accomplished by encouragement, discussion of what can be done better, accountability, love. Seemingly torturing a child in the name of love or encouragement is a mega lie to good parenting.
This confusion is part of what leads to emotional chaos in a person's life. Also, deep within herself, a mom knows when she has pushed her child too much. If the mom is unaware of this, this mom needs professional counseling.
All of us benefit from transformational, evolutionary, energy, psychological work. To avoid getting this is both foolish and dangerous.
Be a loving, encouraging, creative, enlightened mom, causing evolved kids. Require the best your child can give. Reward your child for every step she or he takes. Give them challenges, some of which are within their grasp, some of which are a true reach. Allow your child to know success and "failure," meaning not quite making the mark. We all have to know how to deal with this. This way the child learns that she or he can "fold," and then pick her (or him) self up and go again.
These are vital life lessons. Everyone benefits from learning them. It is ongoing.
Have a blessed New Year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love,
Audrye
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Friday, December 28, 2012
Thursday, December 27, 2012
A Good Mom Knows When to Get Support
A good mother knows when to ask for support. This is before any crisis occurs. Everyone has to know when she (or he) has taken on more than she can handle. We all get signals within us, whether a feeling of dizziness, a stomachache, lack of sleep, overscheduled days, the Inner Guidance (different from the chattering internal dialog) or what-have-you.
Good moms want the best for their children. In the case of the Newtown, CT, tragedy, there were signals throughout this young man's life that he needed more help than his mother could give.
Was it appropriate that the young man's brother was "supposed to" be his brother's caretaker? Only up to a point. All persons have to have the opportunity and possibility of living their lives, especially as a youngster. All siblings are meant to help one another, definitely. This is different from one sibling being responsible for another one, especially if the one needing help has a mental, physical, emotional or spiritual dysfunction. Dysfunctionality requires expert open-hearted competent help.
When individuals or a group are always silent, refusing to express their feelings, needs, opinions, desires or anything germane to who they are, this is generally a signal that something is askew. Often, this lack of response signals that energy is building up, as in a pressure cooker. Without a proper means of release, this energy can -- and often may -- explode.
Just as overly angry, aggressive, resentful, dominating, manipulative people have to learn how to better manage their emotions and deal with the underpinnings of what is truly going on within them, so, too, do people who hide everything inside without sharing anything anywhere with anyone.
It is tragic that this young man, likely with his mom's best intentions, did not get the help he needed.
To have him living in a household rife with guns, plus bringing him to a shooting range, was incredibly foolish. Perhaps target shooting was his mom's way to release her own stress. Perhaps she thought target shooting gave her some control over a tenuous challenging home situation. If these were some of her motivations, she was also acting out, rather than doing her internal work.
Both people needed help.
Neither got what they needed.
This is something for all of us to look at within ourselves, our families, our lives.
Be sure you get the support you need. Ask. Ask. Ask. Find people who are competent to help you. Be willing to give back. Create a barter. Find what you can give or share that will benefit the other person or someone else. Life is an exchange of energy.
Also, Rather than taking on everything possible, instead take on a moderate amount of "stuff" to do in your life. Do what you have to do as well and completely as you can.
The energy of the times is that of flux, transformation, evolution, where each and every one of us is called up to be responsible for our own lives, while also being supportive of one another's growth.
Be wise in your choices.
Much love in the New Year!!!!
Love,
MamaHeart
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Good moms want the best for their children. In the case of the Newtown, CT, tragedy, there were signals throughout this young man's life that he needed more help than his mother could give.
Was it appropriate that the young man's brother was "supposed to" be his brother's caretaker? Only up to a point. All persons have to have the opportunity and possibility of living their lives, especially as a youngster. All siblings are meant to help one another, definitely. This is different from one sibling being responsible for another one, especially if the one needing help has a mental, physical, emotional or spiritual dysfunction. Dysfunctionality requires expert open-hearted competent help.
When individuals or a group are always silent, refusing to express their feelings, needs, opinions, desires or anything germane to who they are, this is generally a signal that something is askew. Often, this lack of response signals that energy is building up, as in a pressure cooker. Without a proper means of release, this energy can -- and often may -- explode.
Just as overly angry, aggressive, resentful, dominating, manipulative people have to learn how to better manage their emotions and deal with the underpinnings of what is truly going on within them, so, too, do people who hide everything inside without sharing anything anywhere with anyone.
It is tragic that this young man, likely with his mom's best intentions, did not get the help he needed.
To have him living in a household rife with guns, plus bringing him to a shooting range, was incredibly foolish. Perhaps target shooting was his mom's way to release her own stress. Perhaps she thought target shooting gave her some control over a tenuous challenging home situation. If these were some of her motivations, she was also acting out, rather than doing her internal work.
Both people needed help.
Neither got what they needed.
This is something for all of us to look at within ourselves, our families, our lives.
Be sure you get the support you need. Ask. Ask. Ask. Find people who are competent to help you. Be willing to give back. Create a barter. Find what you can give or share that will benefit the other person or someone else. Life is an exchange of energy.
Also, Rather than taking on everything possible, instead take on a moderate amount of "stuff" to do in your life. Do what you have to do as well and completely as you can.
The energy of the times is that of flux, transformation, evolution, where each and every one of us is called up to be responsible for our own lives, while also being supportive of one another's growth.
Be wise in your choices.
Much love in the New Year!!!!
Love,
MamaHeart
Audrye
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Thursday, November 8, 2012
My "Baby" Grands - 7 Tips for a Great Family Visit
One of the greatest joys this mom has is also being a GRAMMIE to three fabulous grand-children.
I leave tomorrow to visit these wonderful young people. To maintain privacy, I'll use initials only.
L is a four-year-young amazing active adorable little girl.
O is now 2, and has managed to potty-train herself by following the lead of her sister.
H just turned 1, and I look forward to giving him his presents in person, with a gift each of my grand-daughters.
So, how to make a visit as pleasant as possible?
Here is what I intend to do, so I'll share:
May your life be filled with joy!!!!!!!!!!!
On another note, yes, I am beyond grateful that President Obama continues as President. More on that in another post.
Love,
Audrye
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I leave tomorrow to visit these wonderful young people. To maintain privacy, I'll use initials only.
L is a four-year-young amazing active adorable little girl.
O is now 2, and has managed to potty-train herself by following the lead of her sister.
H just turned 1, and I look forward to giving him his presents in person, with a gift each of my grand-daughters.
So, how to make a visit as pleasant as possible?
Here is what I intend to do, so I'll share:
Seven Tips for a Successful Visit
1. Center yourself daily! Be in your inner peaceful place. Allow this peace to emanate from you.
2. Love yourself all the time. In this space of love, also definitely love your family members, friends, "other" as best you can, the planet.
3. Remember, this is their home with their rules. You are a visitor here. Be sure to treat everyone with respect, and be treated by everyone with respect.
4. Bring joy to everything. Add JOY as a daily ingredient and create a minimum of 15 minutes of JOY daily.
5. Be a contribution. Always find a way to make whatever is happening better, more enlightened, more loving, more beneficial.
6. Speak and Interact with Loving Wisdom in your heart, mind, body and attitude. Whatever you have to say, remember, Love is the Highest Way to Communicate. This has to be real. Go back to # 1, if need be.
7, Pray, Meditate, BREATHE, Affirm, Fill With GRATITUDE and Stay Connected to Source/Goddess/God/Essence. Do this several times daily. From this core, you will be Guided about what to say, when to be silent, when to give, when to receive. If you find yourself getting distressed, then PAUSE, and inhale and exhale slowly and deeply from your diaphragm in three-part breathing. Do this a minimum of three times.
I am so looking forward to seeing these energetic, blessed little beings!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May your life be filled with joy!!!!!!!!!!!
On another note, yes, I am beyond grateful that President Obama continues as President. More on that in another post.
Love,
Audrye
MamaHeart
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Sunday, November 4, 2012
Vote for President Obama! Re-elect Woman/Mom Supporter
Moms, we are on the eve of a critical election! We have pull!!!!!!!
Vote for President Obama! He and Vice President Joe Biden champion women - intelligent, articulate, evolving women. Women/moms with or without money! Women/moms of every complexion, religion, background! President Obama is the father of GIRLS! He is committed to his daughters - plus yours and mine -- having a great life, with possibility and freedom.
In terms of this Choice/Abortion issue. No one I know loves abortion. Abortion is a necessity so long as we have unwanted pregnancies. Yes, we must have universal contraception that works and is safe. Absolutely!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We also have to have choice.
Do you remember what women did before choice was legal? I do!
There were women who put hangers inside themselves to terminate an unwanted pregnancy. These women sometimes aborted, sometimes created great danger to both their fetuses and themselves.
I am a huge champion of contraception. Every sexually active female and male must have this, plus the knowledge, skill and wherewithal to use the birth control properly.
I love life. I love babies. I loved being pregnant. All this by conscious choice!!!!!!!!!!!
Forced pregnancies are as reprehensible as forced abortions.
We all need choice, consciousness, contraception available to us without someone else sticking their business into our privacies. Yes, we have to educate all girls, teens, women on how our bodies work, and how to prevent getting pregnant.
The Republican candidates would scrap Planned Parenthood, make abortion illegal, take away women's rights that many of us -- I am of THAT age -- fought so hard for.
Do you want to be like a country with women walking several steps behind their men???? This is what Romney and his ilk want, be well aware of it.
Vote for President Obama, and for a Democratic Congress, so we can more done this term, and really make a huge difference!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bless us all ladies!!!!!!!
Love,
MomaHeart
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Vote for President Obama! He and Vice President Joe Biden champion women - intelligent, articulate, evolving women. Women/moms with or without money! Women/moms of every complexion, religion, background! President Obama is the father of GIRLS! He is committed to his daughters - plus yours and mine -- having a great life, with possibility and freedom.
In terms of this Choice/Abortion issue. No one I know loves abortion. Abortion is a necessity so long as we have unwanted pregnancies. Yes, we must have universal contraception that works and is safe. Absolutely!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We also have to have choice.
Do you remember what women did before choice was legal? I do!
There were women who put hangers inside themselves to terminate an unwanted pregnancy. These women sometimes aborted, sometimes created great danger to both their fetuses and themselves.
I am a huge champion of contraception. Every sexually active female and male must have this, plus the knowledge, skill and wherewithal to use the birth control properly.
I love life. I love babies. I loved being pregnant. All this by conscious choice!!!!!!!!!!!
Forced pregnancies are as reprehensible as forced abortions.
We all need choice, consciousness, contraception available to us without someone else sticking their business into our privacies. Yes, we have to educate all girls, teens, women on how our bodies work, and how to prevent getting pregnant.
The Republican candidates would scrap Planned Parenthood, make abortion illegal, take away women's rights that many of us -- I am of THAT age -- fought so hard for.
Do you want to be like a country with women walking several steps behind their men???? This is what Romney and his ilk want, be well aware of it.
Vote for President Obama, and for a Democratic Congress, so we can more done this term, and really make a huge difference!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bless us all ladies!!!!!!!
Love,
MomaHeart
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Friday, August 24, 2012
"Rape Is Rape" Plus Five Tips to Heal From Rape
First, all rape is reprehensible. No rape is welcomed or wanted; this is why it's called rape. Whether a person is beaten up, under duress with knife, gun or fists, being forced to have any kind of seeming sex act is rape. And, yes, surprise, a woman CAN get pregnant from this heinous act.
Despite what Rep Todd Aiken (R-MO) and his followers might say, a woman's body does not vet a sperm to see if the woman desired that sperm or chose to reject it. If that were the case, there would be no pregnancies from rape. As we know, instead, there are many.
Pleases be aware that many politicians are lying through their teeth and doing whatever else they feel they have to in order to obfuscate their true intentions and the issues in order to con people -- you!!! -- into voting for them. There is a kind of dis-ease of the mind in some people of the Republican Party, yes, including the Tea Baggers, in their so self-righteous approach to life. It also seems to me that irrespective of religion, all uber-Conservative religionists feel they are always right, and everyone else is clearly wrong, and that the world has to follow their narrow definition of anything. To refrain from doing so, to them, warrants severe punishment and penalties, both from our beloved Creator and, of course, them.
Watch out for this!!!! These are young souls! Enlightened souls and beings behave very differently, giving people love and the possibility of evolution.
Moms, women, girls, awful as it is, we have to acknowledge that there are too many people with political and social agendas calculated to bring women back over 100 years. A quick word on abortion before I give Five Tips to Heal From Rape. Before abortion was legalized in the U.S., women still aborted. Rather than doing it safely, women went into the proverbial back alley and/or stuck hangers into their vaginas. Is there any sane person who wants this for themselves, her sisters, friends, relatives, any woman? Clearly, no. This would be tantamount to the illegal acid-throwing that had been rampant in Pakistan.
1. Acknowlege that you were raped. Acknowledge this to yourself, your beloveds, your friends, your spiritual counselor, your therapist.
2. Get support, counseling and help. See an energy healer, talk and scream it out. Pray and ask for spiritual support. Do The Recapitulation, Tapping, other self-healing techniques. (See http://www.TheMothersManual.com, http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDRKG and http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-mothers-manual-a-spiritual-and-practical-guide-to-child-rearing-and-motherhood-guaranteed-to-cause-enlightened-moms-evolved-kids-free-bonus-vegan-raw-living-recipes-wwwthemothersmanualcom-audrye-s-arbe-wwwthemothersmanualcom/1111865993?ean=2940014643108)
Join a support group and get professional help.
3. Love Yourself Thoroughly. After a woman (or man or child) has been raped, often that person wants to hide. Yes, take a relative moment for yourself, and reach out. Be sure throughout all this, love yourself completely. Feelings of being dirty, unclean, violated, less-than, foolish, blame, shame, guilt, and other less-than-loving emotions are likely to cascade through the surviver-thriver. Experience them for a moment, so you know what it is, then instantly release them. Let them go to Light. Whoosh!!!!!!!! Fill yourself from Crown to Root with Golden White Sparkling Energy and let this bless and clean you thoroughtly.
4. Talk About Your Experience. Share what happened. Get it out of your system. Write about it. Empty yourself of it. In writing about it, much wisdom will come to you. Help others who were in similar situations. If you choose, become an activist. Take internal and external actions. Activate your Survival-Thrival Gene. Know how strong you are. Yes, take actions to apprehending the perpetrator. Be pro-active in your ongoing journey to deeper wholeness, which can be construed as holiness.
5. Give Thanks for Your Wellness. An attitude of gratitude that you survived, thrived, and are here to continue your life is extremely helpful. At whatever step in this journey you find yourself, give thanks that you are here. You live!!! Send love and gratitude to the Creator, to all parts of your body, including your physical self, as well as your emotional, mental and spiritual selves. Appreciate a blade of grass, the rising sun, the crescent moon, everything. Ask your inner being what you learned from this experience. Release fear, and anything less than internal love, as you strengthen yourself in a balanced centered manner. You will discover that you have learned much about yourself and the world. Put this to good use.
Ladies, yes, I was raped many years ago with a knife to my throat, and I have also in the past sometimes been in a sexual situation that I preferred to be out of. Thankfully, I learned from all of it.
Rape is rape!!!!!!!!!!! No one should have to endure it. We have to have abortion, whether anyone personally likes it or not. As half of American pregnancies are unintended, many of them aborted, clearly we have much work to do to have all of us maintain our rights and be responsible with our actions.
Refrain from ever allowing to take any of this away from you.
Love Yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Blessings,
Mama Heart
Audrye
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www.Audrye.org
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Despite what Rep Todd Aiken (R-MO) and his followers might say, a woman's body does not vet a sperm to see if the woman desired that sperm or chose to reject it. If that were the case, there would be no pregnancies from rape. As we know, instead, there are many.
Pleases be aware that many politicians are lying through their teeth and doing whatever else they feel they have to in order to obfuscate their true intentions and the issues in order to con people -- you!!! -- into voting for them. There is a kind of dis-ease of the mind in some people of the Republican Party, yes, including the Tea Baggers, in their so self-righteous approach to life. It also seems to me that irrespective of religion, all uber-Conservative religionists feel they are always right, and everyone else is clearly wrong, and that the world has to follow their narrow definition of anything. To refrain from doing so, to them, warrants severe punishment and penalties, both from our beloved Creator and, of course, them.
Watch out for this!!!! These are young souls! Enlightened souls and beings behave very differently, giving people love and the possibility of evolution.
Moms, women, girls, awful as it is, we have to acknowledge that there are too many people with political and social agendas calculated to bring women back over 100 years. A quick word on abortion before I give Five Tips to Heal From Rape. Before abortion was legalized in the U.S., women still aborted. Rather than doing it safely, women went into the proverbial back alley and/or stuck hangers into their vaginas. Is there any sane person who wants this for themselves, her sisters, friends, relatives, any woman? Clearly, no. This would be tantamount to the illegal acid-throwing that had been rampant in Pakistan.
FIVE TIPS TO HEAL FROM RAPE
1. Acknowlege that you were raped. Acknowledge this to yourself, your beloveds, your friends, your spiritual counselor, your therapist.
2. Get support, counseling and help. See an energy healer, talk and scream it out. Pray and ask for spiritual support. Do The Recapitulation, Tapping, other self-healing techniques. (See http://www.TheMothersManual.com, http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDRKG and http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-mothers-manual-a-spiritual-and-practical-guide-to-child-rearing-and-motherhood-guaranteed-to-cause-enlightened-moms-evolved-kids-free-bonus-vegan-raw-living-recipes-wwwthemothersmanualcom-audrye-s-arbe-wwwthemothersmanualcom/1111865993?ean=2940014643108)
Join a support group and get professional help.
3. Love Yourself Thoroughly. After a woman (or man or child) has been raped, often that person wants to hide. Yes, take a relative moment for yourself, and reach out. Be sure throughout all this, love yourself completely. Feelings of being dirty, unclean, violated, less-than, foolish, blame, shame, guilt, and other less-than-loving emotions are likely to cascade through the surviver-thriver. Experience them for a moment, so you know what it is, then instantly release them. Let them go to Light. Whoosh!!!!!!!! Fill yourself from Crown to Root with Golden White Sparkling Energy and let this bless and clean you thoroughtly.
4. Talk About Your Experience. Share what happened. Get it out of your system. Write about it. Empty yourself of it. In writing about it, much wisdom will come to you. Help others who were in similar situations. If you choose, become an activist. Take internal and external actions. Activate your Survival-Thrival Gene. Know how strong you are. Yes, take actions to apprehending the perpetrator. Be pro-active in your ongoing journey to deeper wholeness, which can be construed as holiness.
5. Give Thanks for Your Wellness. An attitude of gratitude that you survived, thrived, and are here to continue your life is extremely helpful. At whatever step in this journey you find yourself, give thanks that you are here. You live!!! Send love and gratitude to the Creator, to all parts of your body, including your physical self, as well as your emotional, mental and spiritual selves. Appreciate a blade of grass, the rising sun, the crescent moon, everything. Ask your inner being what you learned from this experience. Release fear, and anything less than internal love, as you strengthen yourself in a balanced centered manner. You will discover that you have learned much about yourself and the world. Put this to good use.
Ladies, yes, I was raped many years ago with a knife to my throat, and I have also in the past sometimes been in a sexual situation that I preferred to be out of. Thankfully, I learned from all of it.
Rape is rape!!!!!!!!!!! No one should have to endure it. We have to have abortion, whether anyone personally likes it or not. As half of American pregnancies are unintended, many of them aborted, clearly we have much work to do to have all of us maintain our rights and be responsible with our actions.
Refrain from ever allowing to take any of this away from you.
Love Yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Blessings,
Mama Heart
Audrye
www.TheMothersManual.com
www.Audrye.org
www.BlogTalkRadio.com/GoddessHeartNetwork, MIRACLE MANIFESTING
MONDAYS, 8 pm EDT
www.GoddessHeartWater.com
www.Achee.org
1 888 757 3223 888 75 PEACE
Friday, August 17, 2012
Are Male (Human) Contraceptives on the Horizon?
Male mice are on it, so how soon will it be that men are on male contraceptives? Take a look at this: http://www.everydayhealth.com/sexual-health/0816/male-birth-control-drug-shows-promise-in-mice.aspx?xid=aol_eh-sex_7_20120813_&aolcat=HLT&icid=maing-grid10%7Chtmlws-main-bb%7Cdl29%7Csec3_lnk3%26pLid%3D193607.
What a boon to everyone to have this so-very-important aspect of human sexuality and intimacy be truly shared by both women and men! Especially when a man and a woman are in a close trusting relationship, how easy to have the man take the contraceptive rather than the woman, especially if there are no side effects!
According to the research mentioned in this article, and, yes, mice are noticeably reticent about verbally sharing their thoughts, this drug prevents sperm production yet allows full male libido and performance! How fabulous!
Please let me know your thoughts and feelings about this. Comment here or on my FB page: www.Facebook.com/TheMothersManualCircle or www.Facebook.com/Audrye.
The more buzz we create, likely the more research gets done! What's your take on this?
Thank you and many blessings to you!!!
Love,
Mama Heart
Audrye
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Wednesday, August 8, 2012
To Spank or Not to Spank? Just say NO to Spanking!
What do you think of parents slapping their kids? Do you believe in corporeal punishment? Do you hit your child?
It is inappropriate to slap, spank or hit a child. Speak to your child, explain what's needed and wanted for the child. Stop the objectionable behavior, use positive reinforcement, and give at least 10 yes's to each one no. Have the child know she or he is still a good person. Spare the rod, without spoiling the child.
When a parent, whether mom or dad, spanks her/his child, the parent teaches the child that hitting, bullying, violence is the way to do things. The child learns to be manipulative and to have lower self-esteem, and feels demeaned, less-than. Why is this? The child was disrespected by the parent who is supposed to love the child. This also teaches great confusion about what love is and what love does.
The child may or may not stop the objectionable behavior, not because the child learned anything but because the child prefers that the slapping or nasty verbal language and tone coming from the parent be stopped. So, if the child has to agree with the parent, the child often will do so. Did this mean the child learned the lesson the parent meant to teach? No.
Have I ever hit a child? Yes. Also, afterward, I felt I was the one who made the mistake. Always. It was a bigger lesson for me than for the child, the few times in my life that I did it, spurring me to grow spiritually. I also apologized to the child, and explained what needed to be done.
Where are you with this? Where are you with "spare the rod and spoil the child"? For me, it's ridiculous. Once at a lovely event, another mom and I had a difference of opinion about this, she feeling that because the Bible ostensibly taught this, she was totally justified to smack her daughter when her daughter misbehaved. In fact, she felt I was disparaging of her religious beliefs because I told her the Bible was written in a patriarchical age by men who often had a dominating controlling mentality. She was in a huff. I maintain there are better ways.
Sparing the rod and finding more enlightened ways to teach one's child by and large brings forth a healthier child. Yes, absolutely, discipline your child. Be appropriately firm yet loving. Refrain from slapping, hitting, whacking, smacking. This means you are out of control, especially if the parent does this when the parent is angry. This is one of the reasons we still have war.
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Check out article @http://www.everydayhealth.com/kids-health/0807/parents-spank-slap-kids-in-public-more-often-than-thought.aspx?xid=aol_eh-news_9_20120806_&aolcat=HLT&icid=maing-grid10%7Chtmlws-main-bb%7Cdl17%7Csec3_lnk1%26pLid%3D189608
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It is inappropriate to slap, spank or hit a child. Speak to your child, explain what's needed and wanted for the child. Stop the objectionable behavior, use positive reinforcement, and give at least 10 yes's to each one no. Have the child know she or he is still a good person. Spare the rod, without spoiling the child.
When a parent, whether mom or dad, spanks her/his child, the parent teaches the child that hitting, bullying, violence is the way to do things. The child learns to be manipulative and to have lower self-esteem, and feels demeaned, less-than. Why is this? The child was disrespected by the parent who is supposed to love the child. This also teaches great confusion about what love is and what love does.
The child may or may not stop the objectionable behavior, not because the child learned anything but because the child prefers that the slapping or nasty verbal language and tone coming from the parent be stopped. So, if the child has to agree with the parent, the child often will do so. Did this mean the child learned the lesson the parent meant to teach? No.
Have I ever hit a child? Yes. Also, afterward, I felt I was the one who made the mistake. Always. It was a bigger lesson for me than for the child, the few times in my life that I did it, spurring me to grow spiritually. I also apologized to the child, and explained what needed to be done.
Where are you with this? Where are you with "spare the rod and spoil the child"? For me, it's ridiculous. Once at a lovely event, another mom and I had a difference of opinion about this, she feeling that because the Bible ostensibly taught this, she was totally justified to smack her daughter when her daughter misbehaved. In fact, she felt I was disparaging of her religious beliefs because I told her the Bible was written in a patriarchical age by men who often had a dominating controlling mentality. She was in a huff. I maintain there are better ways.
Sparing the rod and finding more enlightened ways to teach one's child by and large brings forth a healthier child. Yes, absolutely, discipline your child. Be appropriately firm yet loving. Refrain from slapping, hitting, whacking, smacking. This means you are out of control, especially if the parent does this when the parent is angry. This is one of the reasons we still have war.
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Friday, August 3, 2012
Your Child Commits a Crime - What Now?
Your Child Commits a Crime - What Now?
How would any mom feel if her child was the bullier, the rapist, the murderer, the thief, the racist? An important aspect of mothering is to be in touch with one's child from early on. Be in tune with who your child is rather than who you would like her or him to be. Teach by living example plus be words the qualities of authenticity, love, integrity, contribution, creativity, intelligence, discernment, and more.
This means Mom is on a lifelong learning curve. This benefits both her and her family. Anyone who feels learning stops at any point is the person who has stopped at that point. Then what happens? That person actually can begin to de-volve. No-thing stays the same in this third-dimension world. Everything is in constant flux, whether seemintly gently or chaotically. Plus, this dimension abhors a vacuum. Sooo, if an apparent vacuum exists, it's instantaneous, as something will rush in to fill it. We have to be responsible -- with love, balance and presence -- for what rushes into our momentary vacuums.
This massive shooting in Colorado, and the subsequent behavior of the perpetrator has to be giving his mom nightmares. What mom would refrain from asking: What did I do that I could have done differently? What did I manage to refrain from seeing or knowing about my child? What is going on in my child? Without a mom being consumed with guilt -- which furthers usually nothing -- she does have to be responsible for herself and her knowledge of her child. At the same time, once a child is an adult, which astrologically occurs at a person's first Saturn Return about the age of 28 1/2 to 20, that person has to take up the mantle of his/her own personhood.
This shooter was 24. Many may call this an adult, as 21 is when a person gets all their rights and responsibilities. Come, now! How many people are truly self-responsible by 21, never mind 18? The 20s are a time of exploration of what being an adult entails. Most people, unfortunately, are untaught about how to be personally responsible for their emotions, thoughts, actions, behavior.
This is NOT a blame of the mom or dad, by the way. This is an exploration of what a mom may go through when her child commits a horrific, especially unprovoked, crime.
We all have to be cognizant of one another's mental states. We have to develop our internal senses to such a degree of sensitivity that we can more easily sense when someone is "off." This is quite different from someone simply being other than who we are, as we all are unique. When someone has an off-balance internal mechanism, they emit a different kind of energy. Even psychics can be fooled, so this is an area on which our species has to focus.
For example, some of the politicians and social movements in this country and the world are truly repressive, yet under the guise of either or religious, stable, or the way-things-are. No, they are truly out to hurt people. People, again, we all have to wake up! Also, sometimes Mom is the one who is asleep, teaching unfortunate values or devalues to her child. Sometimes it's the child who teaches the mother. We all have to be aware of what's high level and what's low.
Know that this is a time of transformation. Look at the clues in your own life to see where the Universe, your own Inner Compass, is urging you to grow, go, release, let go, move on, complete, open to new, have breakthroughts. Also, yes, sometimes breakdowns are the doorway to breakthroughs.
Blessings to ALL in this time of Change!!!!!
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Thursday, April 26, 2012
Moms, Grandmothers, Children, Sensitivity & the TSA
What has happened to sensitivity, common sense, decency in the way adults treat little kids, whether those adults are agents of the TSA or others? How is it that some TSA agents can ignore the normal upset of a 4-year-young girl when she goes to hug her grandmother, and, instead, the TSA agents call this child a "suspect," grab her, which has her yelling more, as the girl is frightened that she is about to be kidnapped? Then, to make matters worse, the TSA defends the behavior of these very foolish agents -- @http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/25/tsa-defends-pat-down-of-c_n_1454410.html?icid=maing-grid10%7Chtmlws-main-bb%7Cdl3%7Csec1_lnk3%26pLid%3D155375.
As stated in the article, either the agents could have used a wand, put the girl through the scan again, or other techniques rather than look to isolate her in a room by herself (with strangers, something this child was taught to be wary of) or do a "modified" patdown, as the child had hugged her grandmother after the child had been scanned yet before the grandmother had been scanned. Yes, we have to do something to "guard against terrorists," and, yes, terrorists can show up in any guise, age, background, racial grouping, manner of dress, and the like. Yet and all, why do some adults throw any modicum of sense they may possess out the window and behave like petty dictators when faced with a circumstance of power-over someone? Perhaps the TSA has to both hire people with more intelligence and the ability to think quickly in situations, as well as better train the agents they have. Certainly, there has to be a shift.
How do we have some measure of security while flying yet also protect people's individual rights and dignity?
How do we each individually and we collectively as a nation live with integrity? Do you live with integrity? Does your partner? Your child or your children? Do you know what integrity is? Integrity is being real, authentic, honest, present and complete in the moment, doing what you say you'll do, and being accountable and responsible for your word, behavior, actions, emotions. When you "mess up," take responsibility and do it better the next time.
Where are you with this? This country? Politicians? The TSA?
Share with me........... Let's all grow and evolve here.
Many blessings to you, me and all of us ongoingly!!!
Love,
Mama Heart
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Moms & Separating Church and State
Who Speaks forGod/dess? Separation of Church and State Plus Individual Freedom
When I read about an esteemed teacher, Emily Herx, being fired from her post from an Indiana Cartholic school and being called a "grave immoral sinner" because she in vitro fertilization or IVF in order to get pregnant -- @http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/25/catholic-school-ivf_n_1453524.html?1335386848&icid=maing-grid10%7Chtmlws-main-bb%7Cdl1%7Csec1_lnk3%26pLid%3D155337 -- I felt shocked. True, in this day and age, with so many "religious" people presuming to speak for the Creator of All, as though this person actually knows the MIND of I AM THAT I AM, perhaps I could have been more accepting of this piece of news. No, I was shocked and dismayed.
Had the Ms. Herx been a religious teacher at the school, expounding doctrine to the students, maybe, then, yes. Had she even have been Catholic, and told she must teach the staunch tenets of this religion to the students, perhaps, maybe, yes. However, she was neither Catholic, nor a teacher of religion, nor apprised by the school of the doctrine or tenets that were to be followed, and, yes, she was honest, authentic and forthright with the people at the school, and she is denounced by the school, maligned, and fired!!!! The school officials, truly, are the people who are acting in an immoral manner.
Ms. Herx is to be applauded. Good for her to take the steps she needed to in order to become a mom. I wonder how many of the school officials are truly loving, kind, open-hearted people exemplifying what any spiritual person knows is the core of just about any and all spiritual and religious paths. This can be best explained as:
Love the Creator with all your heart, all your soul and all your might (by whatever name you call the ALL IN ALL from which we all come and are part)
Love your neighbor as yourself. (This, of course, presumes that a person loves her or him self, which, sadly, is too often lacking in this world, and is a journey in and of itself).
What are your thoughts here?
Where is the separation of church/religion and state?
Should Catholic schools hire only religious Catholics, grill them in the absolute tenets of Catholic doctrine, and watch over the teachers to be sure these teachers are both teaching, speaking and living every single tenet?
What is moral and what is judgment?
How do you know when you are being led by Divine Guidance and when by egoistic wants?
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May you be blessed. May your family be blessed. May we all be blessed. May we all grow in consciousness, awareness, connection to the Infinite, and within ourselves.
Many Blessings!!!!!!!!!!
Love,
Mama Heart
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Monday, February 20, 2012
Moms, Be Sure Your Child's Teacher Is Respectful
Moms, pay attention and know what's happening in your child's class. It's a sad sorrowful situation when school teachers in any way misuse and/or abuse students. Whether it's the situation in Georgia where a student was strip searched in front of his class (http://www.foxnews.com/us/2012/02/15/georgia-student-sues-school-over-strip-search-in-front-classmates/?icid=maing-grid10%7Chtmlws-main-bb%7Cdl17%7Csec3_lnk1%26pLid%3D136134), a teacher insulting any student or what-have-you, this has to stop. Moms, know what is happening in your child's class, while also allowing your child to be his or her own person.
Just as there are people who ought to have refrained from procreating until they had some idea of how to love and parent, so there are people who need guidance in being teachers.
We are living in a time of both miracles and insanity.
Get involved. Be a volunteer, a class parent, a tutor, or, at the least, go to parent-teachers' meetings. Visit the school whenever there is an opportunity for parents to be involved. Speak with your son and/or daughter about what is occurring in class, what your child is learning, the kind of language being spoken. Know what is happening.
No parent is ever going to know everything, yet it is incumbent for a parent to be well informed. Teach your child to be aware and vigilant about respect, integrity, honesty. Be that way in your home.
For more ideas, go to www.TheMothersManual.com.
You can also call Mama Heart at 1 888 757 3223 or 1 888 75 PEACE.
We can discuss this at www.BlogTalkRadio.com/GoddessHeartNetwork live on MIRACLE MANIFESTING MONDAYS at 8 pm Eastern time, U.S.A.
Blessings and Love,
Audrye
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Just as there are people who ought to have refrained from procreating until they had some idea of how to love and parent, so there are people who need guidance in being teachers.
We are living in a time of both miracles and insanity.
Get involved. Be a volunteer, a class parent, a tutor, or, at the least, go to parent-teachers' meetings. Visit the school whenever there is an opportunity for parents to be involved. Speak with your son and/or daughter about what is occurring in class, what your child is learning, the kind of language being spoken. Know what is happening.
No parent is ever going to know everything, yet it is incumbent for a parent to be well informed. Teach your child to be aware and vigilant about respect, integrity, honesty. Be that way in your home.
For more ideas, go to www.TheMothersManual.com.
You can also call Mama Heart at 1 888 757 3223 or 1 888 75 PEACE.
We can discuss this at www.BlogTalkRadio.com/GoddessHeartNetwork live on MIRACLE MANIFESTING MONDAYS at 8 pm Eastern time, U.S.A.
Blessings and Love,
Audrye
Mama Heart
www.TheMothersManual.com
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Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Ladies, Time to Step UP!
Hi, Ladies (and Gents),
I'm writing this as a letter from my heart to yours. Being a mom is an honor, a sacred trust. Rather than being an intramural sport, with the person with the most children winning, as though people are points in a game, motherhood is best left to women (or men) with consciousness, awareness, heart, wisdom and energy. This can be anyone. Having some finances in place is also wise.
We have been bombarded in the media with teenage moms, moms with gazillions of children, moms who abuse their kids, addicted moms, all of whom need help and support for sure. However, there are many more intelligent, getting-through-the-day-and-night loving moms, whether married, partnered or single. Ladies, make your presence known in the media, in your community, your child/ren's schools, everywhere.
Pass on wisdom, rather than stupidity and ignorance.
Take part in politics. Be a presence wherever you are. Take pride in yourself. Dress nicely, which can be done inexpensively as well as expensively.
If you'd like help, get in touch with me at http://www.themothersmanual.com/ or call me toll-free at 1 888 75 PEACE or 1 888 757 3223.
I have to admit that, spiritual as I am, there are times I feel tapped out with the seemingly overwhelming amount of ignorance running around. What some people consider to be food, I ban from my home. Yes, I used to have a major food addiction, so I absolutely know what it's like. Too many people consider white flour and white sugar as foods; to the contrary, these are actually toxic substances, adding to the acidity of people, which can cause -- what? -- dis-ease.
So, for how to become alkaline, go to http://www.goddessheartwater.com/.
Ladies -- and Men -- we have to wise up! Now!!! Smaller families are wiser than larger. Do you have the finances for nannies? What are you doing to contribute to the health and wellness of the planet? Ask yourselves these questions.
All in all, I love us.
Had to get this out of me.
If you'd like to hear me, go to http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ , and listen to MIRACLE MANIFESTING MONDAYS, live at 8 pm EDT US time.
My life is in major transition, all to the good, and I'll be sharing lots more, to help all of us.
Love,
Audrye
Mama Heart
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I'm writing this as a letter from my heart to yours. Being a mom is an honor, a sacred trust. Rather than being an intramural sport, with the person with the most children winning, as though people are points in a game, motherhood is best left to women (or men) with consciousness, awareness, heart, wisdom and energy. This can be anyone. Having some finances in place is also wise.
We have been bombarded in the media with teenage moms, moms with gazillions of children, moms who abuse their kids, addicted moms, all of whom need help and support for sure. However, there are many more intelligent, getting-through-the-day-and-night loving moms, whether married, partnered or single. Ladies, make your presence known in the media, in your community, your child/ren's schools, everywhere.
Pass on wisdom, rather than stupidity and ignorance.
Take part in politics. Be a presence wherever you are. Take pride in yourself. Dress nicely, which can be done inexpensively as well as expensively.
If you'd like help, get in touch with me at http://www.themothersmanual.com/ or call me toll-free at 1 888 75 PEACE or 1 888 757 3223.
I have to admit that, spiritual as I am, there are times I feel tapped out with the seemingly overwhelming amount of ignorance running around. What some people consider to be food, I ban from my home. Yes, I used to have a major food addiction, so I absolutely know what it's like. Too many people consider white flour and white sugar as foods; to the contrary, these are actually toxic substances, adding to the acidity of people, which can cause -- what? -- dis-ease.
So, for how to become alkaline, go to http://www.goddessheartwater.com/.
Ladies -- and Men -- we have to wise up! Now!!! Smaller families are wiser than larger. Do you have the finances for nannies? What are you doing to contribute to the health and wellness of the planet? Ask yourselves these questions.
All in all, I love us.
Had to get this out of me.
If you'd like to hear me, go to http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ , and listen to MIRACLE MANIFESTING MONDAYS, live at 8 pm EDT US time.
My life is in major transition, all to the good, and I'll be sharing lots more, to help all of us.
Love,
Audrye
Mama Heart
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Thursday, May 5, 2011
Finally, Babies Come With a Manual! THE MOTHER'S MANUAL
I've been given permission from the Mom in Charge, my daughter, to let people know that I'm to become a Grammie for the third time! When I let go of concerns for how much energy is entailed in being a great mom, planetary population issues, and anything else, yes, absolutely, I am totally thrilled! I already love totally my two amazing little grand-daughters, and my internal sense feels this next one is a boy. Whether a boy or girl, our prayers are for a healthy wonderful child.
This brings us to both the amazing parenting and the less-so I get to see as I live my life. People I know with any special-needs children astound me with their dexterity, flexibility, strength and tenderness as they do whatever they can to enhance their children's lives, while also having fulfillment for themselves and for one another. Easy? No. Are people doing it? Yes.
Then, there are the people who make the news with their misuse of their children and themselves. I know the current brand of spirituality sometimes seems to say that we have to be allowing of everything we see as this is a free-will universe zone, which it is, and, in various ways, we do. Nonetheless, we also have to teach one another and ourselves how to evolve so we enhance everything we are and do. Easy? No. Are people doing it? Yes.
Look at whatever is incomplete within yourself. Do you love yourself? Including every aspect of your body? Yes, every aspect. An ongoing journey for me. Treasure every inch. Love it. Nourish yourself with great nourishing food and water (Enagic Kangen Water - R). The best water is Enagic Kangen Water (R), so check out www.GoddessHeartWater.com.
If you are authentic about evolving, go to www.TheMothersManual.com, and get the ebook. For a taste, get the FREE Sampler ebook. No one does it all alone anymore; we are in the Age of Aquarius, and we are here to uplift ourselves and one another. Very different from saving anyone. That's outmoded thinking, believing, behaving. We are all part of Creation, all with the God/dess Spark within us, all daughters/sons of Creator-Source.
Right now, I'm reorienting myself to my current physical location after traveling to my home city. So, still getting centered and grounded. Love to you all. If you'd like to contact MamaHeart, call 1 888 75 PEACE or 1 888 757 3223. Email me at Audrye@TheMothersManual.com. Love and Blessings to us all!!!! Now is the time.
MamaHeart
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This brings us to both the amazing parenting and the less-so I get to see as I live my life. People I know with any special-needs children astound me with their dexterity, flexibility, strength and tenderness as they do whatever they can to enhance their children's lives, while also having fulfillment for themselves and for one another. Easy? No. Are people doing it? Yes.
Then, there are the people who make the news with their misuse of their children and themselves. I know the current brand of spirituality sometimes seems to say that we have to be allowing of everything we see as this is a free-will universe zone, which it is, and, in various ways, we do. Nonetheless, we also have to teach one another and ourselves how to evolve so we enhance everything we are and do. Easy? No. Are people doing it? Yes.
Look at whatever is incomplete within yourself. Do you love yourself? Including every aspect of your body? Yes, every aspect. An ongoing journey for me. Treasure every inch. Love it. Nourish yourself with great nourishing food and water (Enagic Kangen Water - R). The best water is Enagic Kangen Water (R), so check out www.GoddessHeartWater.com.
If you are authentic about evolving, go to www.TheMothersManual.com, and get the ebook. For a taste, get the FREE Sampler ebook. No one does it all alone anymore; we are in the Age of Aquarius, and we are here to uplift ourselves and one another. Very different from saving anyone. That's outmoded thinking, believing, behaving. We are all part of Creation, all with the God/dess Spark within us, all daughters/sons of Creator-Source.
Right now, I'm reorienting myself to my current physical location after traveling to my home city. So, still getting centered and grounded. Love to you all. If you'd like to contact MamaHeart, call 1 888 75 PEACE or 1 888 757 3223. Email me at Audrye@TheMothersManual.com. Love and Blessings to us all!!!! Now is the time.
MamaHeart
www.TheMothersManual.com
www.GoddessHeartWater.com
www.Audrye.org
Thursday, July 8, 2010
Seven Balancers in a "Very" World
A "very" person myself -- very happy, excited, passionate, feeling, whatever -- it has been a journey for me to live from my center core of Light. We are all made of Light; it's what we come from. On Earth, however, the three-dimensionality of most people's existence and the seeming "amnesia" that occurs at birth regarding our deeper origins, can cause people to get stuck in the physicality of this world. We are beyond this, yet also of it. Soooo, how to find balance in a "very" world?
1. Meditate! Every day, for a minimum of 20 minutes, whether with a mantra, affirmation, candle, vision, do this. To raise our frequency vibration and be still brings us to our center.
2. Live from Love! This is the highest vibration we currently know. Love yourself, others, the world. If and when you may find yourself getting angry, upset, frustrated, breathe, breathe, breathe, and go to Love.
3. Breathe!!!! Breathe deeply from your diaphragm, as a baby does. Notice how a baby's entire body breathes? How about you? Do you do this? Or, do your shoulders go up and down, rather than your diaphragm go in (when you exhale) and out (when you inhale)? Take a yoga class and practice pranayama.
4. Give and Receive! When you may be feeling wretched, first take time for yourself. Give to yourself. Take a bath, do your nails, read a great book, pamper yourself. Give to others. Send love, call a friend or family member and tell that person what's great about them and why you treasure them. Donate to a cause you love, both in terms of finances, time and energy. Be part of the matrix of life here and now. Now is the time!
5. Be in Stillness! Turn off every electronic gadget and doodad you have - phones, radio, TV, iPod, laptop, smartphone, MP3, whatever. Go into nature and invigorate yourself by being with the natural physical world, which teems with internal energy and light. Merge. This same inner life burgeons within you.
6. Celebrate! Do something weekly that celebrates your life and experience on Earth. Be with friends, loved ones, associates, family, your Self, and honor everyone, and allow yourself to be honored. Dance, sing, make love, make a joyous noise!!!
7. Give Gratitude to Source! However you conceptualize, experience, sense the Source of All, give gratitude and say thank you for your life, consciousness, initiations, experience, even if you are unsure why you are doing this. Do this daily, and your life shifts and reflects the thanks you are giving.
Yes, sometimes any of us can feel as though we are being spun in a dryer, wrung out and tossed into a basket. Then, give thanks for being clean, about to be folded or ironed, and made gorgeous!!! We are living in the midst of shift, and WE ARE THE SHIFT, as we consciously evolve and raise our frequency vibration. Bring this brilliance to yourself, your family and your life.
Love,
Mama Heart
Audrye
www.TheMothersManual.com
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1. Meditate! Every day, for a minimum of 20 minutes, whether with a mantra, affirmation, candle, vision, do this. To raise our frequency vibration and be still brings us to our center.
2. Live from Love! This is the highest vibration we currently know. Love yourself, others, the world. If and when you may find yourself getting angry, upset, frustrated, breathe, breathe, breathe, and go to Love.
3. Breathe!!!! Breathe deeply from your diaphragm, as a baby does. Notice how a baby's entire body breathes? How about you? Do you do this? Or, do your shoulders go up and down, rather than your diaphragm go in (when you exhale) and out (when you inhale)? Take a yoga class and practice pranayama.
4. Give and Receive! When you may be feeling wretched, first take time for yourself. Give to yourself. Take a bath, do your nails, read a great book, pamper yourself. Give to others. Send love, call a friend or family member and tell that person what's great about them and why you treasure them. Donate to a cause you love, both in terms of finances, time and energy. Be part of the matrix of life here and now. Now is the time!
5. Be in Stillness! Turn off every electronic gadget and doodad you have - phones, radio, TV, iPod, laptop, smartphone, MP3, whatever. Go into nature and invigorate yourself by being with the natural physical world, which teems with internal energy and light. Merge. This same inner life burgeons within you.
6. Celebrate! Do something weekly that celebrates your life and experience on Earth. Be with friends, loved ones, associates, family, your Self, and honor everyone, and allow yourself to be honored. Dance, sing, make love, make a joyous noise!!!
7. Give Gratitude to Source! However you conceptualize, experience, sense the Source of All, give gratitude and say thank you for your life, consciousness, initiations, experience, even if you are unsure why you are doing this. Do this daily, and your life shifts and reflects the thanks you are giving.
Yes, sometimes any of us can feel as though we are being spun in a dryer, wrung out and tossed into a basket. Then, give thanks for being clean, about to be folded or ironed, and made gorgeous!!! We are living in the midst of shift, and WE ARE THE SHIFT, as we consciously evolve and raise our frequency vibration. Bring this brilliance to yourself, your family and your life.
Love,
Mama Heart
Audrye
www.TheMothersManual.com
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Thursday, June 24, 2010
7 Basic Guidelines in Mothering Your Adult Child
Being a mom changes as your child progresses in capability, awareness and age. The very hands-on mothering you give to an infant is a far cry from the nurturing you give to your adult offspring. So ,how to keep the love going and communication flowing when you are both adults with your own mindsets, karma, souls, and what-have-you?
Let us consider someone to be adult once that person has experienced her or his first Saturn return, which occurs in everyone's life at the age of 28 1/2 to 29, and repeats cyclically every 28 1/2 to 29 years. So, your "child" is now 29. How to maintain closeness while respecting each person's life journey?
1. Do everything in love. This has to be your motivating factor. Always give what you can spiritually, emotionally, physically, mentally, materially, and know when to let your offspring handle her or his life situations. Your offspring is also and always building character, strength and awareness, as are you.
2. Always remember to acknowledge, praise, and celebrate victories, positive actions, accomplishments. If your adult offspring feels you are always criticizing and finding fault with everything, you can be sure your offspring will tune you out. Also, know that every soul does things in their own time framework.
3. Pick wisely and carefully your time, space and place to impart any insights that may be a challenge for your offspring to hear. Say what you have to say in a loving way, for the highest good of your offspring, yourself and everyone concerned. Then let go. Listen to what your offspring has to say. Allow your offspring to take action. Avoid being in a right-wrong opposition. Instead, choose a win-win scenario, knowing that everyone has his/her own perspective and readiness factors in anything.
4. Be gently persistent without judgment if your offspring is in challenging positions, say, with addictive behavior. You can be sure that your offspring also has self-judgment, whether this is obvious or hidden. Get professional help when needed. Sometimes an intervention by someone other than you or another family member is required.
5. If your offspring is doing well, enjoy, acknowledge and give thanks. If your offspring has some area that would benefit from tweaking -- true for most people of any age -- accentuate all the easy stuff, and gently tackle the challenges. Love your offspring throughout.
6. Remember we are all souls learning lessons and sharing blessings, in a human body with emotions, physicality and past-life influences. Pray, meditate, and ask for guidance in everything you do.
7. Know when to let go and let Source and your offspring's innate soul handle whatever there is.
As simple as this sounds, these 7 Basic Guidelines in Mothering Your Adult Child will ensure you have a healthy, pleasurable, ever-evolving relationship with this wonderful soul that was either born through you, you adopted, or to whom you are a stepmom. Much continued success on the Mom Journey!!!
Love
Mama Heart
Audrye
www.TheMothersManual.com
www.facebook.com/pages/The-Mothers-Manual-Circle/306594502159?v=info
Let us consider someone to be adult once that person has experienced her or his first Saturn return, which occurs in everyone's life at the age of 28 1/2 to 29, and repeats cyclically every 28 1/2 to 29 years. So, your "child" is now 29. How to maintain closeness while respecting each person's life journey?
1. Do everything in love. This has to be your motivating factor. Always give what you can spiritually, emotionally, physically, mentally, materially, and know when to let your offspring handle her or his life situations. Your offspring is also and always building character, strength and awareness, as are you.
2. Always remember to acknowledge, praise, and celebrate victories, positive actions, accomplishments. If your adult offspring feels you are always criticizing and finding fault with everything, you can be sure your offspring will tune you out. Also, know that every soul does things in their own time framework.
3. Pick wisely and carefully your time, space and place to impart any insights that may be a challenge for your offspring to hear. Say what you have to say in a loving way, for the highest good of your offspring, yourself and everyone concerned. Then let go. Listen to what your offspring has to say. Allow your offspring to take action. Avoid being in a right-wrong opposition. Instead, choose a win-win scenario, knowing that everyone has his/her own perspective and readiness factors in anything.
4. Be gently persistent without judgment if your offspring is in challenging positions, say, with addictive behavior. You can be sure that your offspring also has self-judgment, whether this is obvious or hidden. Get professional help when needed. Sometimes an intervention by someone other than you or another family member is required.
5. If your offspring is doing well, enjoy, acknowledge and give thanks. If your offspring has some area that would benefit from tweaking -- true for most people of any age -- accentuate all the easy stuff, and gently tackle the challenges. Love your offspring throughout.
6. Remember we are all souls learning lessons and sharing blessings, in a human body with emotions, physicality and past-life influences. Pray, meditate, and ask for guidance in everything you do.
7. Know when to let go and let Source and your offspring's innate soul handle whatever there is.
As simple as this sounds, these 7 Basic Guidelines in Mothering Your Adult Child will ensure you have a healthy, pleasurable, ever-evolving relationship with this wonderful soul that was either born through you, you adopted, or to whom you are a stepmom. Much continued success on the Mom Journey!!!
Love
Mama Heart
Audrye
www.TheMothersManual.com
www.facebook.com/pages/The-Mothers-Manual-Circle/306594502159?v=info
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Seven Tips for Convenience, Money, Health and Wellness
Every mom relishes convenience, money-savers, health and wellness for herself and her family. How can you have this in your life?
1. Create Mini Mom Co-ops in your area to create a bigger buying group than any of you would be separately. You can meet weekly or monthly with each member having specific responsibilities to be determined at each meeting or assigned ongoingly, such as who finds where to get the best-priced-highest-quality food, child accessories/accoutrements, nutritional products, latest news/buzz on what's happening in the world of mothers and babies, toddlers, children, teens, and/or whatever is important to you, including childcare services, sleepover arrangements and what-have-you.
If you have similar food lifestyles, each member can prepare food for the group for a day. For example, I am pretty much a raw vegan, especially when I'm home, and I love going to potlucks with this kind of food, where there are both many people living this lifestyle as well as newbies. If you have, say, over seven members, each person can prepare food for a day for the other people, and you all chip in the required money, and no one has to prepare food every day. The benefits? You get great fresh food, save on money, time and energy, and yummy food. Get together on recipes and share.
2. Find organic food producers who deliver food to your door. There are many organic food co-ops that deliver to a central location. Members of co-ops of this nature often devote a specific amount of time to the co-op, pay a designated fee, and receive their food at this central location.
If you have created your Mini Mom Co-op, one member may pick up food from the central location and deliver it to the homes of the other members. This person can be changed each month, as desired. See what's happening in your area in terms of actual food delivery, including what's online. Certain areas have food co-ops that deliver to member's homes.
For vitamins, minerals, nutritional supplements and other products, I recommend such online companies as http://www.vitacost.com/ and http://www.nutiva.com/ both because of their pricing, quality and timeliness.
3. For health and wellness, use natural formulations rather than chemicalized products, despite how much advertising and marketing most mainstream companies pepper the media with. Many doctors are out of touch with the natural "green" approach to life as this was omitted from their medical curriculum. For example, instead of aspirin, use white willow bark tincture from the health food store. Consult a naturopath, herbalist and/or healer well versed in these products so you know what to use.
If you choose to be healthy and have healthy children, refuse to use white flour, white sugar and the myriads of products that are laced with these ingredients, including pasta, bread, cookies, cakes, candy. If you do love cooked and baked food, use products made with organic whole-grain amaranth, quinoa, rye, and, if your are un-allergic, wheat. The "normal" American food intake has led to obesity, diabetes, hypoglycemia, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, heart disease, liver problems, brain issues, and, possibly, autism, as a way of life for many. By eating properly and, yes, exercising, much of this can be prevented and healed.
My take on autism and a host of other dysfunctional aspects of life is that some of it is caused by environmental factors, including the high usage of cell phones (which I also use), laptops (on which I am writing this blog), excessive TV watching (I am working on this, and I am on TV at www.YouTube.com/AudryeNow), as these products emit high levels of electromagnetic frequencies that can be harmful to our cells, organs, emotions, brains, despite what some faulty research may say. We can bombard ourselves in our modern lifestyles with less-than-beneficial influences, little of which is abating, and, instead, is proliferating.
We need new approaches to technology. Inventors, take note!!! With Uranus and Jupiter now traversing Aries, we have the opportunity for technological innovations with a new attitude, including being beneficial for people and planet. Yes, this may necessitate a changeover in our habits, and, yes, we and our families are worth it. We can grow food indoors organically, purify water in new ways, create oxygenated air.
4. Be outdoors in CLEAN air, drink CLEAN water, eat CLEAN food without contamination of toxic fertilizers, genetically mutilated seeds, radiated products (which kill the food's nutrition and bring the possible precursor to cancer to the person ingesting the faux food), and lots of the newer technological stuff being done to almost every product used by most people.
5. Use natural organic fabrics as much as possible. Use your Mini Mom Co-op to get good deals. Let's make ourselves a force to be reckoned with.
6. Save money every week, whatever your lifestyle and circumstance. Distinguish between needs and wants. Fulfill needs and deal with wants as possible, knowing you are living well in the now as well as opening up to "future" nows also. Whether you put away a dime or thousands, save something for future use, pleasure, emergencies, donation, giveaways. After a while, you will grow your Financial Freedom Fund.
7. Pray, meditate, give gratitude, be silent and still, and open to the wisdom and guidance of your Inner Voice. We are all guided by Source. Become aware of how you receive Guidance, including via intuition, imagination, insight, inspiration, dreams, aha moments, books, art, music, nature, love. Follow up on your Guidance! Put this into action in your life. Have at least two people in your life with whom you can discuss this aspect of your being. Participate with us here, or email me at Audrye@TheMothersManual.com, and I will set up an online meetup group that facilitates this.
Okay, Moms, these are a few ideas. Be in touch with me and this blog for more. To listen to more info, tune into "The Mother's Manual Show" at 10 am Eastern Time U.S. on www.HolisticGlobeRadio.com, or go to that site's Archives and listen at your convenience.
Lots of love and blessings to you and to us all!!!!
Love,
Mama Heart
1. Create Mini Mom Co-ops in your area to create a bigger buying group than any of you would be separately. You can meet weekly or monthly with each member having specific responsibilities to be determined at each meeting or assigned ongoingly, such as who finds where to get the best-priced-highest-quality food, child accessories/accoutrements, nutritional products, latest news/buzz on what's happening in the world of mothers and babies, toddlers, children, teens, and/or whatever is important to you, including childcare services, sleepover arrangements and what-have-you.
If you have similar food lifestyles, each member can prepare food for the group for a day. For example, I am pretty much a raw vegan, especially when I'm home, and I love going to potlucks with this kind of food, where there are both many people living this lifestyle as well as newbies. If you have, say, over seven members, each person can prepare food for a day for the other people, and you all chip in the required money, and no one has to prepare food every day. The benefits? You get great fresh food, save on money, time and energy, and yummy food. Get together on recipes and share.
2. Find organic food producers who deliver food to your door. There are many organic food co-ops that deliver to a central location. Members of co-ops of this nature often devote a specific amount of time to the co-op, pay a designated fee, and receive their food at this central location.
If you have created your Mini Mom Co-op, one member may pick up food from the central location and deliver it to the homes of the other members. This person can be changed each month, as desired. See what's happening in your area in terms of actual food delivery, including what's online. Certain areas have food co-ops that deliver to member's homes.
For vitamins, minerals, nutritional supplements and other products, I recommend such online companies as http://www.vitacost.com/ and http://www.nutiva.com/ both because of their pricing, quality and timeliness.
3. For health and wellness, use natural formulations rather than chemicalized products, despite how much advertising and marketing most mainstream companies pepper the media with. Many doctors are out of touch with the natural "green" approach to life as this was omitted from their medical curriculum. For example, instead of aspirin, use white willow bark tincture from the health food store. Consult a naturopath, herbalist and/or healer well versed in these products so you know what to use.
If you choose to be healthy and have healthy children, refuse to use white flour, white sugar and the myriads of products that are laced with these ingredients, including pasta, bread, cookies, cakes, candy. If you do love cooked and baked food, use products made with organic whole-grain amaranth, quinoa, rye, and, if your are un-allergic, wheat. The "normal" American food intake has led to obesity, diabetes, hypoglycemia, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, heart disease, liver problems, brain issues, and, possibly, autism, as a way of life for many. By eating properly and, yes, exercising, much of this can be prevented and healed.
My take on autism and a host of other dysfunctional aspects of life is that some of it is caused by environmental factors, including the high usage of cell phones (which I also use), laptops (on which I am writing this blog), excessive TV watching (I am working on this, and I am on TV at www.YouTube.com/AudryeNow), as these products emit high levels of electromagnetic frequencies that can be harmful to our cells, organs, emotions, brains, despite what some faulty research may say. We can bombard ourselves in our modern lifestyles with less-than-beneficial influences, little of which is abating, and, instead, is proliferating.
We need new approaches to technology. Inventors, take note!!! With Uranus and Jupiter now traversing Aries, we have the opportunity for technological innovations with a new attitude, including being beneficial for people and planet. Yes, this may necessitate a changeover in our habits, and, yes, we and our families are worth it. We can grow food indoors organically, purify water in new ways, create oxygenated air.
4. Be outdoors in CLEAN air, drink CLEAN water, eat CLEAN food without contamination of toxic fertilizers, genetically mutilated seeds, radiated products (which kill the food's nutrition and bring the possible precursor to cancer to the person ingesting the faux food), and lots of the newer technological stuff being done to almost every product used by most people.
5. Use natural organic fabrics as much as possible. Use your Mini Mom Co-op to get good deals. Let's make ourselves a force to be reckoned with.
6. Save money every week, whatever your lifestyle and circumstance. Distinguish between needs and wants. Fulfill needs and deal with wants as possible, knowing you are living well in the now as well as opening up to "future" nows also. Whether you put away a dime or thousands, save something for future use, pleasure, emergencies, donation, giveaways. After a while, you will grow your Financial Freedom Fund.
7. Pray, meditate, give gratitude, be silent and still, and open to the wisdom and guidance of your Inner Voice. We are all guided by Source. Become aware of how you receive Guidance, including via intuition, imagination, insight, inspiration, dreams, aha moments, books, art, music, nature, love. Follow up on your Guidance! Put this into action in your life. Have at least two people in your life with whom you can discuss this aspect of your being. Participate with us here, or email me at Audrye@TheMothersManual.com, and I will set up an online meetup group that facilitates this.
Okay, Moms, these are a few ideas. Be in touch with me and this blog for more. To listen to more info, tune into "The Mother's Manual Show" at 10 am Eastern Time U.S. on www.HolisticGlobeRadio.com, or go to that site's Archives and listen at your convenience.
Lots of love and blessings to you and to us all!!!!
Love,
Mama Heart
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Toddler Meets Newborn Sibling: Five Tips for Success
In this age of awareness, creating love and affinity between a toddler and her or his newborn sibling can be relarively easily done with These Five Tips.
1. Prepare the Toddler in advance by speaking lovingly about the coming Sibling, letting your Toddler know the Benefits and FUN about to accrue to her or him: playmate, sister/brother, friend, companion.
2. Always make sure you Give your Toddler Special Time, however busy you are with your Newborn. This Love and Attention is mandatory.
3. Conceive a Limited Amount of Children, preferably two maximum, for the good of your family as well as the planet. Everyone loves and requires private time, energy, attention, acknowledgement, awareness, including you, your mate and your children.
4. Allow your Toddler to Participate in caring for the Newborn, so she or he gets a proprietary feeling right from the start. This will have your Toddler feeling special as a big sister or brother, while still being a Toddler.
5. Remember your Toddler is still a Baby, so coo and applaud all her or his attainments. As the Newborn grows, have this baby appreciate her or his senior sibling.
These Five Key Tips will get you started to having a wonderful loving blissful family. Let me know how this works out for you. I'm in the process of seeing this occur in my family. Many blessings to
you!!!!
Love and Blessings,
MamaHeart Audrye
www.TheMothersManual.com
www.Facebook.com/pages/The-Mothers-Manual-Circle/306594502159?v=info
www.YouTube.com/AudryeNow
www.HolisticGlobeRadio.com, click on Archives for "The Mother's Manual Show" (c)
1. Prepare the Toddler in advance by speaking lovingly about the coming Sibling, letting your Toddler know the Benefits and FUN about to accrue to her or him: playmate, sister/brother, friend, companion.
2. Always make sure you Give your Toddler Special Time, however busy you are with your Newborn. This Love and Attention is mandatory.
3. Conceive a Limited Amount of Children, preferably two maximum, for the good of your family as well as the planet. Everyone loves and requires private time, energy, attention, acknowledgement, awareness, including you, your mate and your children.
4. Allow your Toddler to Participate in caring for the Newborn, so she or he gets a proprietary feeling right from the start. This will have your Toddler feeling special as a big sister or brother, while still being a Toddler.
5. Remember your Toddler is still a Baby, so coo and applaud all her or his attainments. As the Newborn grows, have this baby appreciate her or his senior sibling.
These Five Key Tips will get you started to having a wonderful loving blissful family. Let me know how this works out for you. I'm in the process of seeing this occur in my family. Many blessings to
you!!!!
Love and Blessings,
MamaHeart Audrye
www.TheMothersManual.com
www.Facebook.com/pages/The-Mothers-Manual-Circle/306594502159?v=info
www.YouTube.com/AudryeNow
www.HolisticGlobeRadio.com, click on Archives for "The Mother's Manual Show" (c)
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
New Grandbaby on the Way!
Birth is such a phenomenal experience, always new, always special, especially when the people involved are eagerly desiring the coming child. Here I am home, awaiting the birth of my second grand-child, as second assistant in the delivery room, prepared to leave next week to my daughter for this very wonderful occasion. I just received a call from my daughter informing me that I may have to change my plane reservation and come earlier as her baby may also be choosing an earlier arrival.
I am a professional clairvoyant counselor, used to clients, friends and family having me tune in for them to facilitate their growth and evolution, which is ever a pleasure for me to do. Now, here am I, asking my clairvoyant crew to tune in for me about what they see. Why? As a mom and grammie, my emotions are strong and deep, and my psychic channels about what's very personal for me can get fogged and fuzzed by my own feelings. My innate impulse is to fly to my daughter instantaneously and get there immediately.
What I know is I'm taking an earlier flight than my booked one, to be in the delivery room with my daughter and son-in-law, who is first assistant, helping my daughter as she brings forth this second miracle in our lives. This is my intention at this moment.
I will be blogging weekly -- after I return after the baby's birth -- both about my mom and grammie journey as well as about the book, The Mother's Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood (c). We're looking at a July ebook launch date! Meanwhile, get your free ebook, The Mother's Manual Sampler (c) at www.TheMothersManual.com. This site will be updated, with a reduced book price!
I also remind everyone that in the midst of what can look like chaos can come the most amazing breakthroughs, miracles, and possibilities! In the midst of all that is happening in the outer world, LOVE yourself, remember you are a Spark of Divinity, and live that!!! Remember to breathe, call on Divine Love, and fill yourself up with the Miracle of Creation!
Bless all of us eternally!!!!
Love,
MamaHeart
Audrye
www.facebook.com/pages/The-Mothers-Manual-Circle/306594502159?v=info
I am a professional clairvoyant counselor, used to clients, friends and family having me tune in for them to facilitate their growth and evolution, which is ever a pleasure for me to do. Now, here am I, asking my clairvoyant crew to tune in for me about what they see. Why? As a mom and grammie, my emotions are strong and deep, and my psychic channels about what's very personal for me can get fogged and fuzzed by my own feelings. My innate impulse is to fly to my daughter instantaneously and get there immediately.
What I know is I'm taking an earlier flight than my booked one, to be in the delivery room with my daughter and son-in-law, who is first assistant, helping my daughter as she brings forth this second miracle in our lives. This is my intention at this moment.
I will be blogging weekly -- after I return after the baby's birth -- both about my mom and grammie journey as well as about the book, The Mother's Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood (c). We're looking at a July ebook launch date! Meanwhile, get your free ebook, The Mother's Manual Sampler (c) at www.TheMothersManual.com. This site will be updated, with a reduced book price!
I also remind everyone that in the midst of what can look like chaos can come the most amazing breakthroughs, miracles, and possibilities! In the midst of all that is happening in the outer world, LOVE yourself, remember you are a Spark of Divinity, and live that!!! Remember to breathe, call on Divine Love, and fill yourself up with the Miracle of Creation!
Bless all of us eternally!!!!
Love,
MamaHeart
Audrye
www.facebook.com/pages/The-Mothers-Manual-Circle/306594502159?v=info
Friday, January 15, 2010
Haiti, Mother Earth, Rising Consciousness
There are folks whose job is to pay attention, heed and monitor Earth tremors, both in the U.S. and elsewhere. They look at potential volcanic eruptions, land quakes, water overflow, air currents, more. I am quite sure there are people in various governments and the private sector who have deep knowledge of Earth Changes. I find myself wondering what happened regarding the earthquake in Haiti and any of these persons' observations.
Was no one watching whose work it is to do so? Was there a breakdown in communications? A wonderful astrologer named Ronnie Dreyer had sent to some of her subscribers information describing the possibility of earthquakes because of the powerful eclipses we had Dec 31, 2009 in Cancer and today Jan 15, 2010 in Capricorn, accompanied with Mars Retrograde, Mercury about to leave Retrograde -- does this say something about lack of communication? -- and Saturn entering Retrograde. She didn't say where she saw it occurring. Nonetheless, what happened? Was someone informed, who then kept the data quiet? Was there concern for panic? Was no one informed? Is someone sleeping? Is this all of us to some extent?
There is also the human factor. An overpopulated area, with badly constructed over-crowded edifices without regard for what's appropriate for the actual land, poverty, lack of education and/or illiteracy, crashed opportunities, and people already feeling overwhelmed are a strong recipe for disaster. Anyone who reads this Blog knows I am an avid proponent and supporter of conscious conception, smaller families, people making babies with awareness and preparation. Almost any time I've seen an individual, family, culture, country, world area that ignores this and, for whatever reasons, conceives children haphazardly, this is a clear indication there is going to be major challenges. This includes aborting babies of a particular sex; making overly large families because that was the way it was done in ages past for everyone everywhere at one time; ignorance and lack of contraceptives; lack of self-esteem or individual power for women -- any and all of this is cause for the people involved and everyone else to sit up and take notice. The pot is boiling over and there is going to be a mess!
I am writing this as a woman and a mom, an Earth person, feeling sorrow, compassion, empathy, and, yes, annoyance, which I acknowledge and release, to return to my inner center. I, like everyone, am truly a Soul, doing an Earth journey, connected to everything that exists beyond time and space. None of us can afford to forget this is who we are. None of us can afford to be ignorant, lazy, arrogant, blind, deaf, closed. The time has passed for this. We must wake up! We are being catalyzed to awaken! The very Earth is tweaking us! We are all responsible for our decisions and choices. Sitting on the fence is a choice. Being unaware is a choice. Taking steps is a choice.
With another wonderful medium-channel, Lisa LaMendola, I saw this Earth crack that happened in Haiti as a harbinger of potential things to come. I'm refraining from going into detail on what was shown to me. Suffice it to say that we humans are being put on notice. The writing is on the wall. None of this information is to frighten. It is to awaken, including both compassion, understanding, forgiveness, wisdom, ability, LOVE. As a species, we are literally at a nexus when-when we can and are being catalyzed to consciously evolve ourselves. We are all part of the multi-dimensional matrix. Now is the time.
Give of yourself to help the people of Haiti. In the U.S., we can even do it via our cell phones by texting 90999, then texting "Haiti" and a $10 donation goes to the Red Cross, and the money is added to the cell statement. You'll get a text verifying that you choose to do this; respond "yes," and then you'll get a thank-you text. You can do this as often as you choose. Pray, meditation, send stuff, do what you can. Be there for someone. Ask that everyone find a way to benefit from this. Even in the midst of a tragedy there is learning and evolution. Let us embrace this catastrophe and make it also a means for spiritual, mental, emotional and physical evolution, even in the midst of tears.
Even as I write this, I hear from Anderson Cooper via the Oprah Winfrey show, there are more after-shocks. Open your heart and help! This is a concentrated area of desperation and overwhelm with bodies being dumped into trucks. As Neicy Nash would say, foolishness and mayhem. We must do better. HELP HAITIANS NOW!!!! People are digging themselves and one another out. The core and spirit of the Haitians is extraordinary. Do something positive!!!!
I'm bringing out books, starting with the FREE Ebook, The Mother's Manual Sampler (c). Geet yours at www.TheMothersManual.com. Around Mother's Day, we'll be launching the masterpiece, The Mother's Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood (c), at the same website. You can be a mom, or not. You can be a woman or man. Get the books, do the exercises, evolve yourself!!! Now is the time.
Bless you in every way, and may your journey be blessed.
Love,
Audrye
Mama Heart
www.TheMothersManual.com,
Was no one watching whose work it is to do so? Was there a breakdown in communications? A wonderful astrologer named Ronnie Dreyer had sent to some of her subscribers information describing the possibility of earthquakes because of the powerful eclipses we had Dec 31, 2009 in Cancer and today Jan 15, 2010 in Capricorn, accompanied with Mars Retrograde, Mercury about to leave Retrograde -- does this say something about lack of communication? -- and Saturn entering Retrograde. She didn't say where she saw it occurring. Nonetheless, what happened? Was someone informed, who then kept the data quiet? Was there concern for panic? Was no one informed? Is someone sleeping? Is this all of us to some extent?
There is also the human factor. An overpopulated area, with badly constructed over-crowded edifices without regard for what's appropriate for the actual land, poverty, lack of education and/or illiteracy, crashed opportunities, and people already feeling overwhelmed are a strong recipe for disaster. Anyone who reads this Blog knows I am an avid proponent and supporter of conscious conception, smaller families, people making babies with awareness and preparation. Almost any time I've seen an individual, family, culture, country, world area that ignores this and, for whatever reasons, conceives children haphazardly, this is a clear indication there is going to be major challenges. This includes aborting babies of a particular sex; making overly large families because that was the way it was done in ages past for everyone everywhere at one time; ignorance and lack of contraceptives; lack of self-esteem or individual power for women -- any and all of this is cause for the people involved and everyone else to sit up and take notice. The pot is boiling over and there is going to be a mess!
I am writing this as a woman and a mom, an Earth person, feeling sorrow, compassion, empathy, and, yes, annoyance, which I acknowledge and release, to return to my inner center. I, like everyone, am truly a Soul, doing an Earth journey, connected to everything that exists beyond time and space. None of us can afford to forget this is who we are. None of us can afford to be ignorant, lazy, arrogant, blind, deaf, closed. The time has passed for this. We must wake up! We are being catalyzed to awaken! The very Earth is tweaking us! We are all responsible for our decisions and choices. Sitting on the fence is a choice. Being unaware is a choice. Taking steps is a choice.
With another wonderful medium-channel, Lisa LaMendola, I saw this Earth crack that happened in Haiti as a harbinger of potential things to come. I'm refraining from going into detail on what was shown to me. Suffice it to say that we humans are being put on notice. The writing is on the wall. None of this information is to frighten. It is to awaken, including both compassion, understanding, forgiveness, wisdom, ability, LOVE. As a species, we are literally at a nexus when-when we can and are being catalyzed to consciously evolve ourselves. We are all part of the multi-dimensional matrix. Now is the time.
Give of yourself to help the people of Haiti. In the U.S., we can even do it via our cell phones by texting 90999, then texting "Haiti" and a $10 donation goes to the Red Cross, and the money is added to the cell statement. You'll get a text verifying that you choose to do this; respond "yes," and then you'll get a thank-you text. You can do this as often as you choose. Pray, meditation, send stuff, do what you can. Be there for someone. Ask that everyone find a way to benefit from this. Even in the midst of a tragedy there is learning and evolution. Let us embrace this catastrophe and make it also a means for spiritual, mental, emotional and physical evolution, even in the midst of tears.
Even as I write this, I hear from Anderson Cooper via the Oprah Winfrey show, there are more after-shocks. Open your heart and help! This is a concentrated area of desperation and overwhelm with bodies being dumped into trucks. As Neicy Nash would say, foolishness and mayhem. We must do better. HELP HAITIANS NOW!!!! People are digging themselves and one another out. The core and spirit of the Haitians is extraordinary. Do something positive!!!!
I'm bringing out books, starting with the FREE Ebook, The Mother's Manual Sampler (c). Geet yours at www.TheMothersManual.com. Around Mother's Day, we'll be launching the masterpiece, The Mother's Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood (c), at the same website. You can be a mom, or not. You can be a woman or man. Get the books, do the exercises, evolve yourself!!! Now is the time.
Bless you in every way, and may your journey be blessed.
Love,
Audrye
Mama Heart
www.TheMothersManual.com,
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