Thursday, January 22, 2009

A Mother's Heart: Tips for Two to Tweens

Two-to-tween child issues have your confused? Here are some helpful tips.

Reward and acknowledge your child’s good behavior, and avoid telling your child she/he is “bad.”


Have at least 10 “yes’s” for every one “no.” Examples: Yes, you may wear the green top. Yes, you may eat the carrot. Yes, you may read the book. Yes, you may see a movie this weekend. Yes, you may do your homework at that table. No, you may not stay out till 2 a.m. Yes, you may have your friend visit.

Create Family and Home Guidelines (c) in which every member of the family participates. You and your mate, if there is a mate, are the senior members of the family co-operative, while the child is a junior member. Here are some ideas: Everyone treats herself/himself and everyone else with respect. People behave toward one another as each prefers to be treated. Everyone has tasks and chores to do at appointed times. Individual talents and the consensus of the group can determine these, and/or everyone gets an opportunity to do many of the tasks, resulting in everyone being capable in many areas. We go to bed at peace with one another, the world, and ourselves with love in our hearts and smiles on our faces. No one goes to bad angry with another person. Any unresolved anger or other issues are put in a Jug of Light ™ where the issues are en-lightened. Family members agree to disagree, if need be, with an agreed-upon acknowledged time and place for resolving the concern in a peaceful manner.

All of this and more, more, more are in the healing transformational 600-page ebook, The Mother’s Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood ©, which will be available to you next month at www.TheMothersManual.com .

FREE for you next month also is the special ebook, The Mother’s Manual Sampler ©!!!

QUESTION FOR YOU: How do you handle situations with your two-to-tween child?

Please email me at MoonMystic22@aol.com with your responses!! Everyone, also let me know what ideas and topics you would like to see in this Blog.

Much Love,

Mama Heart
Audrye

Audrye is a spiritual therapist, transformational catalyst, artist, TV personality, author AND Mom and Grammie, who has held seminars and classes in the U.S., Europe, West Africa and the Caribbean. She, Team and YOU are creating a transformational peaceful multi-dimensional total global experience for all of us. Look forward to teleseminars, webinars, Internet radio and TV shows, as well as in-person seminars. Many blessings to us all!!!

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