Friday, August 21, 2009

A Mother's Heart: Dealing with In Laws

Ah, the joys of family. The likelihood of everyone in a family getting along well with tremendous love yet without outright conflict is small, certainly these days. What about the added complication of in-laws, whether or not a couple is married? What about in blended families? What about with adopted children? Yes, absolutely, it's definitely possible and advisable for everyone involved to be authentic, loving and malleable, getting along with love. Absolutely, I recommend it. I also have to be real here and say that sometimes this lovingness in all kinds of families can take some being and doing.

Knowing that all of us come from Source, that we are Sparkling Light and Love at our core is a big help. Meditation, clearing oneself of emotional and mental clog is mandatory. Yet, we are also in our human -- hu-wo-man -- gear, and sometimes egos and personalities can clash. This is also clearly seen in astrology. When planets square, this aspect can create challenge, which translates and opens the way to opportunities for growth. Sooooo, what to do if and when clash and conflict, irritation and ire, happens with you and another person?

For myself, in various family situations now and in the past, I was doing my best to simply let words, attitudes, feelings that I sensed and picked up from others do the proverbial duck slide off my back. However, I was advised from a dear one in my Clairvoyant Crew who also comes to me -- yes, psychics also consult psychics -- to stop "taking low" and stand up for myself, nicely, lovingly and definitively, and allow others to deal with it, so everyone gets an opportunity for growth. Now, understand, when growing up, I was the one with the biggest mouth, yelling the loudest in verbal combat with my mother. (We long since made up and forgave one another for everything totally.) With plenty of self-work and seminars, therapy, what-have-you, I've mellowed considerably so I can almost always simply be my normally loving self with an open heart.

Yet, yet, yet, I can still be set off. A signal for more self work. If this can happen with me, chances are you also can be triggered. What do I suggest? If something truly is unimportant and trivial, let that something go. If the underlying principle operating in the situation is important, find an enlightened way to address the principle, the issue and the circumstance. Letting too much stuff slide, however, is like putting dirt under a rug. Even a little bit is still dirty, therefore lacking in impeccability. A mound of dirt, even and especially if seemingly hidden, is a mountain, so the result is filth, which is beyond yucky and totally a barrier to any kind of authentic relationship. If necessary, literally get an impartial facilitator -- usually best if not a member of the family who may have either a vested interest in the outcome or may be insufficiently trained or of an appropriate consciousness for this sort of intervention -- and have that person or group speak with each participant. Then have a group get-together. Come up with goals for each person and the family as a whole. Everyone truly has to acknowledge her/his part in whatever is happening. Denial leads to issues. If people refuse to own up to whatever part they're playing in this family drama, then everything is more complicated and unlikely to have the highest and best resolution. This is an excellent opportunity for breakthroughs and true family harmony, benefitting each and every person involved.

Open your heart with love. Ask Source to put wisdom in your heart, head and mouth, and come from this place. Put everything in the hands of Source when you go to sleep at night, asking for a solution in the morning. Follow the Guidance you are given. Be willing to forgive and pardon, including with yourself. Let go of the attitude or belief that someone has to be "right" or "wrong," and go for a win-win situation. So long as harmlessness or the Buddhist concept of "ahimsa" is the result, go for it.

Yes, stand up for yourself -- gently, softly, clearly and openly. If need be, agree to disagree. Allow everyone to have his/her perspective. Say, as I occasionally have forgotten to, "That's an interesting point of view," as taught by Gary Douglas, originator of Access Light Energy Work. Let go of polarity. Is this always easy for me? Not as yet, though getting moreso. So, yes, more evolution on the human scale.

If, in the case of in-laws, and there are children, if everyone involved is loving and caring with the children, this is of paramount importance. Also, find something to like and enjoy about all the people involved, and share this aspect of life with them. Meditate and prepare yourself when you know you are going to be dealing with anyone who might "trigger" you. In fact, if you do get triggered, what is there in you to trigger? This is already a signal that you have internal work to do so you are totally clear. When nothing can "get" you, you are in a clear loving space, able to deal with wherever anyone is on the spectrum of human or hu-wo-man development. You are free! This is approaching Mastery.

Yes, it's a journey. For all of us. Lots of Love and Blessings to YOU!!!!

Love,

Mama Heart
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Wednesday, August 12, 2009

A Mother's Heart: Oh, The Joy of My Grand-Baby

My Baby-Grand celebrates her First Birthday this weekend. As my son-in-law said, she'll probably consider it a mammoth Play Date. My daughter and son-in-law are creating a fabulous fete for all of us and friends to celebrate this beautiful being's first spin around our sun.

How I love buying clothing and stuff for this little person. We all do.

For you and your child or children, grands or great-grands, Give Till Your Heart Smiles (TM), as I say for Achee (www.achee.org), remembering that love is the absolutely biggest gift. Make, build, create, purchase, share your heart and time with your child/ren and grands or great-grands. As ever, clear up ANY "junk" from the past so you create a present that's truly a gift for all of you. In my case, I also do this. This way, the actual love that exists between myself and whomever the other person is or group of people, can freely flow.

Is this always easy? No, yet it's simple. To refrain from doing this is sure to create clutter of emotion, mindsets, energy and the rest. Unneeded. Unnecessary. Undesired.

Back to participating in my Baby Grand's life. Now she is learning to stand. She can manage about a minute's worth on her own, then down she sits, with a mega-grin on her beautiful face. What a great spirit she has!!! I see her mom, dad, my mom, dad, and my former spouses's dad and himself in her, as well as myself. And, obviously and of course, she is totally her own person.

What brilliance will she bring to herself, us and the world?! Even though I've studied her astrological chart, participated at her birth, her beauty is unfolding with all the joys she is already radiating and will be illuminating to us all. May her journey be a glorious one!

May we all live from our hearts and souls. May we all be blessed. May we all clear ourselves and be the Light and Love we are!!!

Blessings and Love,

Mama Heart,
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Thursday, July 30, 2009

A Mother's Heart: Creating a Blissful Future

So much debate, including in the spiritual and metaphysical world, about whether people can "create" our futures or whether life is all up to the Universe/Fate/I AM Presence/God-dess/Great Mystery/Whatever. For my part, I "get" that we come into this life with a potential life plan encoded within us that we participated in putting together with Source while we were in the In-Between, and we have the option in every moment of living of fulfilling or digressing from our own In-Between intention. We have "free will" and "free choice" constantly, even when life may seem to negate this. Some people feel that everything is either predestined, so why bother, so to speak, while other folks see life as we plan every moment, including with our thoughts, words, feelings, actions, that we are in sole control. Me, I definitely feel that we are co-creators with MC or Main Creator, of which we are integral parts, the physical manifestation of the Divine, and we have a mammoth say in our lives. I also feel that there are global goings-on that help determine some of our journey, as we are participants in the All. Plus, there's the ever-present surprise, the unique, the multi-dimensional quirky aspect that adds zest to the mix.

How to "know" who you-I-we are?

Meditate, get quiet, feel, sense, open to the higher vibrations. Be in nature, beauty. Take time for your inner spirit to express. This is as important, even more so, as creating the wherewithal to have a living space, clothing, food, the physical necessities of living, as well as creating loving relationships -- with your own self, Creator, family, friends, colleagues. We are all one family, though some people seem ignorant of this. What a family we are!!!! From exceedingly tall to micro petite, from light white to dark black and all shades on the spectrum, with gold and red highlights, so to speak. From straight "as sticks" hair to curly, kinky, fuzzy, long, short, bald. We are brilliant to dull, artistic, creative, mechanical, electronic, "geek."

When the ego gets in the way, this is usually a sign of massive misunderstanding as well as, often, of insecurity. Whenever one sees any individual or group categorically insult or put down another group, generally there is massive insecurity in the individual or group who is doing the insulting. Any person or group who has a healthy self-regard and knows s/he is an aspect of Creation can only marvel at the wonder of it all, as well as, if the ego peeps in, have feelings of sadness for the ignorance and veil obscuring so much of the brilliance available to all of us. What a waste of energy, time, emotion for egos to be running rampant!!! Egos can be interesting things to have to give us some individuality, though the ego is definitly not who any of us is in our essence.

So, how to create a blissful future? Start with questing into who you-I-we are! The eternal questions: Who Am I? Why Am I Here? What Is Life? How Can I Live to Best Express My Essence? Feel with your heart. Sense. Use your head, avoiding the internal dialog as though this ongoing self talk is drivel and junk, which is a great definition of what this constant churning usually is. Clear up your own emotional hurts. If people refuse to heal themselves of slights, hurts, angers, resentments, pain, whatever, of the past, these very emotional pings live on in the body and absolutely can harm the person, who then blasts this stuff out as energetic emanations, as well as words, attitudes, actions, often unknowingly and unconsciously. If you find yourself living in blame, victimhood, rage, sorrow, then it's time for some self-healing. There are plenty of astounding practitioners to facilitate healing. I am one. And, yes, we practitioners who are good at this are also involved constantly in our own evolution. It is a life journey.

When you love someone, tell them, show it, take actions that demonstrate this love, and send out those feelings. If you feel alone -- all one -- send love to the Universe, yourself, the Creator. Rejoice that you are alive with awareness. Start at home with yourself. Bless yourself. Treat yourself as you wish to be treated. See yourself as blessed/blissed. Be the blessing and blissing you choose to receive. Acknowledge yourself. Ask the Universe to bless/bliss you, and allow yourself to receive.

Lots of love to you!!!!

Mama Heart
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Wednesday, July 22, 2009

A Mother's Heart: The Joys and Pangs of Birthing Anything

Whenever one's dreams are in the process of materializing -- new birth! -- emotions are sure to pop up. In addition to joy and excitement, you-I-we may feel nervous as well as any unfinished hanging-on outmoded feelings, including anything having to do with entitlement, deservability, ability, whatever. This experience holds true for the birth of a baby, graduating or shifting from one level to another or bringing forth a book. So, if you are in the midst of something vital to you, even if you feel and know you are Guided by Source to be-do-have whatever is afoot, remember to breathe, breathe, breathe, and know you're in the company of many who have greatly achieved. Laugh! Be willing to release any old outworn feelings, mind patterns, behavior to Source and open to the glory of the new enlightened experience beckoning your onward.

It may seem to be easy to stay centered and balanced if a person lives a life without anything new or challenging. However, we humans -- hu - wo - mans -- are in a Growth Spurt on this planet at this time. We are in the midst of three powerful eclipses, the Earth's Schumann Resonance Factor has been shifting, and we as a species are being called upon to truly grow up and evolve. When we see on the global stage people who have refused to take responsibility for the pain and anguish they experienced in their lives and allow that angst to rule them, this behavior, sad is it can be, is their refusal to be accountable or to find the kind of support and facilitation that would empower them to release this "junk" and move into their inner peace.

Right now, I am in the process, with my wonderful graphic designer, of going over and honing the design for the free 60-page The Mother's Manual Sampler (c) and the astouncing healing transformational 600-page The Mother's Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood (c) so both books can be released as ebooks by October. Finally, Babies Come With a Manual!! (c) I am both elated, excited, peaceful, grateful, appreciative, and, yes, sometimes, a bit nervous or high strung. This is all ego. Source is running the show. So, for me, as for you, put the Ego Games to the side, and allow the beauty and Light of Source to shine through you and move you through your steps. For more ways to do this, stay tuned to this Blog, as well as to http://www.facebook.com/Audrye, http://www.twitter.com/Audrye22, http://www.linkedin.com/in/Audrye, http://www.myspace.com/Audrye22, http://www.plaxo.com/Audrye, http://www.consciouslivingspace.com/profile/Audrye -- as well as on LivingOutLoud, Ecademy, WeTheWorld, and more -- to get the word on when these books are being released and get yourself a copy. As ebooks, they are environmental, ecological, economical and electronic, so you can print what you choose, and read the rest on your computer, just as you read this Blog.

Nervousness can be reinterpreted as excitement. Your stomach feels tight or churning, and you "think" you're nervous? How about reintegrating this as you're excited? Smile, smile, smile. Breathe any seemingly unpleasant emotions out of your body, your cells, your DNA, your whatever and replace them with Living Source Light and Love. Do this every morning and evening for at least two weeks, and you will shift. This is a Vital Tip that changes lives!!! If what you are about is for the highest good of all, the highest good of yourself, and the highest good of all concerned, with free will and free choice for all concerned, keep taking your steps, and you are guaranteed to succeed! Success wears many faces, and has many appearances, so be willing to have a new life experience.

This is birth. Something new! Bringing blessings for all. The "pangs?" Just Ego Games! We are beyond that, even as we do our Earth Walk.

Many blessings to you in every way.

Love,

Mama Heart
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Tuesday, July 14, 2009

A Mother's Heart: Make Time for Yourself

Hi, Mamas! How many of you make time for yourself? Yes, in the midst of taking care of your child or children, your mate (if you have one), your work (whether in or out of the home, whether for pay, love or barter), you have to create time for yourself. This includes relaxation, meditation, exercise, education, spirituality, play.

How? You may ask. Create schedules. Get up earlier that whatever you do now, and meditate and pray in bed before you get up and start your day. Yes, you can go to the bathroom first, obviously, if nature calls. Set up an Affirmation for the day, and have this be your Mantra, your Prayer and Intention. Allow this Affirmation to be your reality. Some excellent ones include: "I love and accept myself." "I am beautiful inside and out." "I am a Money Magnet." "I am a Sparkle of Divinity."

I find myself making peace with my body practically every morning. I exercise, eat well, and take care of myself, yet certain parts of my body have chosen for reasons of their own to look older than other areas. If I were to castigate myself and these areas -- as I had done earlier in my life -- I would be creating an internal conflict, a war with myself, emanating a lesss-than-peaceful vibration within my own persona and in the world. Sooooo, as what is, is, even if for a moment, it is preferable to make peace with one's being, and from that vantage point, make whatever shifts one can. In any case, beauty is also a matter of perspective. What one person may harp on, could be meaningless to another. In essence, I am super healthy -- for which I am very grateful and appreciative -- and, actually, an attractive person. Being "perfect" can be an illusion, so all of us, get over it, and love yourself.

Even if once a month, take yourself OUT!!! Dance, listen to music, look at the river, climb that mountain (or hill), walk in that garden, wear that lovely dress. Remember that you are a woman, in addition to being a mom. Treat yourself as though you are a Goddess, which you, in essence, are.

Take a course, read a book, take a webinar, listen to a teleseminar, gain wisdom and knowledge. This is an ongoing life experience. Constantly evolve and grow in whatever areas interest you. Expand your horizons. Go beyond what you "think" you are. The "thinking" self is limited. You are limitless.

Do yoga, tai-chi, chi gong, stretching, walking. Have a reasonable bed time for your child or children, and stick to it. Read to your young child, and have your older child read something inspiring before that child goes to sleep. Play lovely relaxing music, whatever that may be for you and your family.

For now, this can get you started. Many Blessings!!!

With Love,

Mama Heart
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Friday, July 10, 2009

A Mother's Heart: Conception and Expectations

It's with a sad heart that I see in the world and on TV women who have sex without contraception, conceive a baby unintentionally (we all DO know how babies are made, yes?) and then expect this man, her sexual partner, who may be unready or unprepared to make any commitment to her, to then stay on as her mate and father to this child they both created without thinking, preparation or conscious intention. Then the woman may get angry at the man if he chooses to be lax about fathering, financial support and/or partner-spousal commitment to her. Why is she surprised? If there was little or no conversation about baby-making, if both people were careless or unthinking about sex, and they continually make love and/or have sex, then, at some point, pregnancy is a likely result. As obvious as this sounds, Ladies, please always use birth control, unless you and your man have consciously and clearly agreed to have a baby and are prepared emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, and, yes, financially, to bring forth a new life on this planet.

This is simple A, B, C. That there are so many "accidental" pregnancies in this country, where contraceptives are readily available, is a testament to the frequent thoughtlessness and carelessness of people in their intimate sexual lives. This is less than the best sign of the potential for someone to be a good parent. More likely, it is a signal that this woman, and/or man, may be ill prepared for the mommy journey. This person is likely to experience unfulfilled expectations, disappointment, anger, hurt, rage, overwhelm, and a host of other feelings, situations and conditions. True, any of us can triumph over circumstances. Most of the time, this is required to live life. Nonetheless, why do some women -- and men -- set themselves up for hardship? Often, too, these very women may have an unloving attitude about the whole situation, without ever looking within to see why they created this circumstance in the first place. Yes, the woman definitely can grow into being a great mom.

Yes, too, children are a blessing. Life is precious. All true. This is not a license to go out and unthinkingly go on a baby-making spree, expecting the Universe to care for your child. The Universe gave us wisdom, and we are expected to use it. Though it may take a village to raise a child, what village is someone targeting for the task of raising her child? Has the village been informed about this and has the village agreed? There is also such a thing as personal responsiblity and accountability. It is also true that we live in a multidimensional universe, and what can look peculiar from a human third-dimensional perspective may make total sense from a higher-dimensional spiritual view. Perhaps this woman -- or man -- had to fulfill on certain agreements made before their incarnation. Perhaps this woman -- or man -- had to learn how to work hard. Perhaps some of these people had abandoned their child/ren in previous-parallel existences, and are now learning responsibility. All is possible.

We have, especially in this high-tech country, some amount of dominion over our sex lives. We can learn with various devices when we women are fertile. We can use contraceptives. We can have actual conversations and deep communication with our partners. We can have actual intimacy. Having sex can be very different from experiencing intimacy. And, Ladies of the heterosexual variety, do you know that many men will say almost anything once they are in the midst of a sexual experience, especially if those words will have you transfixed and continuing to be sexual with them? Wake up, please!!! Get to know this man, and, if you choose to be sexually intimate with him, use contraceptives -- even if you dislike the devices, which most of us do -- so, if and when you conceive, you do so consciously, purposefully, and preparedly, and, hopefully, with a man who is ready, willing and able to beyour partner, and who also chooses to be a dad. Better yet, be in a relationship with him first, so you are in a position to get pregnant and fully joyously welcome this new life.

Being a great mother takes something, and in the best of cases, any and all of us can sometimes do things that are less than our best, so be wise, and start baby-making when you are ready. Foisting pregnancy and motherhood on yourself before you are prepared, and then having false expectations, can be damaging to you and your child/ren.

Today's Blog was inspired when I was watching TV and seeing women who made babies without being in any committed relationship, then were angry with the man involved. The host never even asked why the woman got pregnant, what she was thinking. This would clearly be un-politically correct, as the person being interviewed would have to actually look within herself. I am a huge supporter of women's rights. Fully!!! Ladies, we also have a responsibility to ourselves, our lives, our children, and, yes, our mates, to be honest, clear, authentic, loving, and real. Thank you for hearing the love and concern I have for the children conceived in this manner, their mothers, fathers and families, and for all of us.

Blessings,

Mama Heart
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Tuesday, July 7, 2009

One Hallmark of a Great Mom

Being a great mom starts with having the emotional, spiritual, mental and physical readiness to conceive, carry, birth and care for a child -- this wisdom-love is a big Hallmark of being a Great Mom.

With all our choices and freedoms come responsibility and honor. Expecting perfection in any of this is unneeded as well as next to impossible. The concept of making lots of babies these days, especially in a world with ecological and population overflow, is irresponsible. Allowing one's ego to rule is less than the hallmark of a great mom. Those days of acting from one's "wants," especially in baby-making, without wisdom and love, essentially are over and gone. Whether the time or necessity to make many babies ever returns is a moot point, as such planetary needs are highly unlikely for at least the next 50-100 years. Even if there is hideous natural or human-made devastation on this planet, it still behooves people to make less rather than more children so that each child can have attention, love, energy, as can the mom. What woman is born solely to be a mom, and that's it? First and foremost, a woman is a soul in physical form, with being a mom part of that journey, and her own evolution part of the experience.

Do I recommend being enlightened moms with evolved children? Yes!!! Each soul has its own karmic journey that may be invisible to the human view, so judgment is ineffective and useless. Nonetheless, in our core, we all get Guidance. This is different from the jabbering of the internal dialog or nonsense limited-thinking self-talk. To think any of us is above the Divine, and for people to act out of unresolved internal issues -- which is what more rather than less people have been doing for years, unfortunately -- creates more chaos on the Earth and in individual lives. Yes, it gives that person and all people the opportunity to learn and practice compassion, tolerance, support, strength, and so much more.

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Blessings to you in every way!!!

Mama Heart Audrye

Thursday, January 29, 2009

A Mother's Heart: "Adolescent Mouth"

Do you or your teen have “Adolescent Mouth”? Do you remember it? “Adolescent Mouth” is that indescribably nasty I-know-it-all-and-you-do-not attitude so many adolescents seem to embrace at some time in their development, which some people keep as a lifelong behavior. Did you do this? I certainly did, and felt absolutely justified and correct in so doing, even as I also felt guilty, knowing even then I was being unfair. I felt some of the people toward whom I displayed this yucky behavior were playing with half or less of a deck. Somewhat judgmental, would you say?

Some people hold onto Adolescent Mouth as a means of behavior throughout their lives. Do you know anyone like this? Is it ever you? Recognize. Be aware that using nastiness as a way to deal with anything often is an indication of that person’s feeling angry, upset, hostile, outranked, scared. Though bullies have made a habit of honing Adolescent Mouth as a weapon, by now most people know that bullies are actually out-of-control insecure scared people, picking on anyone they consider more vulnerable than themselves. This goes for individuals, groups, nations. Instead, find a way to actually state and deal directly with the issues at hand rather than coming off as an irritable and irritating adolescent. The time for healthy emotional expression is upon us, whatever our age.

Adolescence is that precious time between childhood and teen time, when the person is beyond childhood yet before the demands and changes of the teens. The teens are harbingers of adulthood. Adolescence and/or puberty is a time of great change in anyone’s life with hormones cascading through the blood, accompanied with rapid bodily and emotional shifts. New feelings, new physicality, new needs are emerging. How to handle this? What to do? What to feel? How to behave? Have you handled your experience successfully and consciously? Most people need guidance. Be sure to be aware of this in your teen, and be loving, aware, compassionate, honoring, and request your teen be this with you, too. Many teens will respond favorably to this.

Adolescence is also that time when people bond with their peers. Acting bossy to your teen at this time is often counter-productive, fruitless, and almost guaranteed to garner retaliation. Your behavior would then show you to be indulging in your own brand of Adolescent Mouth. You have to go beyond this, including, sometimes, using appropriate humor. Mainly, you are being called upon to put yourself in your teen’s shoes, figuratively, and understand from your teen’s perspective what is occurring, and for you to come up with wisdom rather than autocratic dictates. Remember, you both will live through this, so listen, listen, listen, to what your teen is actually saying, and be there for your child.

Today’s culture, especially in the U.S., has many instances of young adolescents looking to behave like young adults. Their bodies are beginning to look more mature, yet their minds and emotions are still immature. Ask yourself: If you are a woman, were you adequately and lovingly prepared for your period and sexuality by your mom or other parent or parental figure? If you are a man, were you adequately and lovingly prepared for wet dreams and sexual desires by your father or other parent or parental figure? For everyone: Have you healed yourself of whatever issues occurred when you were an adolescent? If you are a parent, particularly a mother, if your child is an adolescent, those years between 10-13, are you ready to prepare your child for this onslaught of changes?

Girls will often find themselves having a huge interest in styling. Either that, or they’ll hide in sweats and large T’s. Boys may begin to swagger. Some adolescents will look to take on the trappings of what they think is adulthood, including usage of alcohol, tobacco, or other unhealthy substances. Some may begin to swear and use harsh language. Some will ignore school, while others will immerse themselves in studies. Some are involved in sexual exploration, including some that look innocent and physically undeveloped.

Soon, the peer group will be the main thing in their lives, while parents are relegated to the back seat. Be conscious and aware with love: Your child needs you as much as ever to be there as a model, guide, confidante. Be well aware of the privacy that comes with this age, the new bodily awareness. Are you prepared?

Now is absolutely the time to talk about sex, if you have not already done so. Do this by the time your child is 10. In fact, in today’s world, very delicately begin talks about good and bad touch when you child is as young as 3 or 4 years of age.

QUESTION FOR YOU:
What part is “Adolescent Mouth” playing in your life?

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Much
Love,

Mama Heart
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Audrye is a spiritual therapist, transformational catalyst, artist, TV personality, author AND Mom and Grammie, who has held seminars and classes in the U.S., Europe, West Africa and the Caribbean. She, her Team and YOU are creating a transformational peaceful multi-dimensional total global experience for all of us. Look forward to teleseminars, webinars, Internet radio and TV shows, as well as in-person seminars. Many blessings to us all!!!

Thursday, January 22, 2009

A Mother's Heart: Tips for Two to Tweens

Two-to-tween child issues have your confused? Here are some helpful tips.

Reward and acknowledge your child’s good behavior, and avoid telling your child she/he is “bad.”


Have at least 10 “yes’s” for every one “no.” Examples: Yes, you may wear the green top. Yes, you may eat the carrot. Yes, you may read the book. Yes, you may see a movie this weekend. Yes, you may do your homework at that table. No, you may not stay out till 2 a.m. Yes, you may have your friend visit.

Create Family and Home Guidelines (c) in which every member of the family participates. You and your mate, if there is a mate, are the senior members of the family co-operative, while the child is a junior member. Here are some ideas: Everyone treats herself/himself and everyone else with respect. People behave toward one another as each prefers to be treated. Everyone has tasks and chores to do at appointed times. Individual talents and the consensus of the group can determine these, and/or everyone gets an opportunity to do many of the tasks, resulting in everyone being capable in many areas. We go to bed at peace with one another, the world, and ourselves with love in our hearts and smiles on our faces. No one goes to bad angry with another person. Any unresolved anger or other issues are put in a Jug of Light ™ where the issues are en-lightened. Family members agree to disagree, if need be, with an agreed-upon acknowledged time and place for resolving the concern in a peaceful manner.

All of this and more, more, more are in the healing transformational 600-page ebook, The Mother’s Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood ©, which will be available to you next month at www.TheMothersManual.com .

FREE for you next month also is the special ebook, The Mother’s Manual Sampler ©!!!

QUESTION FOR YOU: How do you handle situations with your two-to-tween child?

Please email me at MoonMystic22@aol.com with your responses!! Everyone, also let me know what ideas and topics you would like to see in this Blog.

Much Love,

Mama Heart
Audrye

Audrye is a spiritual therapist, transformational catalyst, artist, TV personality, author AND Mom and Grammie, who has held seminars and classes in the U.S., Europe, West Africa and the Caribbean. She, Team and YOU are creating a transformational peaceful multi-dimensional total global experience for all of us. Look forward to teleseminars, webinars, Internet radio and TV shows, as well as in-person seminars. Many blessings to us all!!!

www.Achee.org
www.TheMothersManual.com
www.AudryeOmArt.com
www.AudryeNow.tv
MoonMystic22@aol.com

Thursday, January 15, 2009

A Mother's Heart: Moms and Grams

Love letter to my grand-baby! The spirituality – and all else -- of being a mom is beyond time, space and place. When this journey happily morphs into a grammie tale, how fabulous is this!! Today’s Blog is a personal one that’s also universal.

Now that I’m a Grammie, and get to participate in the development of the daughter of my daughter, I can assure you of the absolute deliciousness, delightfulness of this aspect of life, especially as we had all prepared for this new arrival and were as ready as we could be. That I was an integral part of the birthing team is one of the greatest gifts my daughter has bestowed upon me. To see my grand-daughter emerge, and so decidedly quickly, is, I’m sure, a harbinger of this baby’s charming, brilliant, and adorable effect on us all.

Though my daughter and I are certainly two distinctly differently people, the thread of our connection clearly runs strongly through the two of us, and can already be seen in the baby. It is amazing how both DNA and environment have their roles in human development, as well as the souls of all involved and everyone’s action, attitude and behavior choices. Suffice it to say, I am enjoying to the hilt seeing my daughter be a mom, as well as my new place as Grammie, as well as Mom.

Is there one way to be a grandmother? There are at least as many ways as there are grandmas. We all have our own ways, and we can – and will – change our own modalities. I love to play with this little one, giving her zerberts, tickling her, kissing her, holding her, singing to her, letting her relax and rest, holding and walking with her. This is universal. When I see her echoing the facial expressions of both my father or her paternal grandfather, both of whom are with Spirit, I smile. When I saw my daughter as a baby do the same, I thought, to my then-amazement, that DNA will out. So, be aware that DNA, whether for something we love or loath, can appear, so be sure to contribute positive factors, encouraging the new being, using positive actions, shining love, being the living Soul of Light in personal form.

For those of you who are moms and/or grams, here is my question:

QUESTION: How do you bring your Divine Love and Light to your child and/or grandchild?

Please email me at
MoonMystic22@aol.com with your responses!! Everyone, also let me know what ideas and topics you would like to see in this Blog.

Very soon – we’re targeting next month – you will be able to have your FREE copy of the delectable The Mother’s Manual Sampler © ebook, as well as order the healing transformational 600-page masterpiece ebook, The Mother’s Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood © at
www.TheMothersManual.com . Finally, Babies Come With a Manual!!! ™

Much Love,

Mama Heart
Audrye

Audrye is a spiritual therapist, transformational catalyst, artist, TV personality, author AND Mom and Grammie, who has held seminars and classes in the U.S., Europe, West Africa and the Caribbean. She, Team and YOU are creating a transformational peaceful multi-dimensional total global experience for all of us. Look forward to teleseminars, webinars, Internet radio and TV shows, as well as in-person seminars. Many blessings to us all!!!

www.Achee.org
www.TheMothersManual.com
www.AudryeOmArt.com
www.AudryeNow.tv
MoonMystic22@aol.com

Thursday, January 8, 2009

A Mother's Heart: "The Protective Prayer"

Life is a spiritual journey, yet sometimes we may feel like screaming and venting. How can we energetically protect ourselves and others if and when we howl? Answer: "The Protective Prayer” ©! -- given to me by Source. This is used for self-processing while alone, without yelling at another person.

"The Protective Prayer”© protects the person doing transformational self-work and emotional expression, as well as anyone else named in the process. Use this when you may be feeling angry and choose to vent your emotions without causing harm anywhere to anyone, including yourself. As emotions are emotion in motion, energy moving, and intention can create manifestation, we have to be aware of what we say, our attitude and intention behind what we think, say and do. Yet, if a person has been unable to wrap love around his or her own anger as Thich Nat Hanh recommends so wisely, then we have to do something else that is honoring of ourselves, where we are, and everyone else in existence.

So, here is "The Protective Prayer” ©. You do this process alone. Say to the Universe/Source: “Protect myself and everyone else I may mention aloud or silently with Protective Loving Light and Energy Light and Love. Whatever I may say and feel, and to whomever I may direct these words and emotions, these words and emotions are to go into the Universe as Light and Love, and everyone is to be protected in Light and Love. I ask that whatever spaces may be made available in me from releasing and expressing whatever I express is to be filled with Divine Light and Love, and to whomever else would like this, let that person also be filled with Divine Light and Love. I do this for my highest good, the highest good of all concerned and the highest good of the Universe, with free will and free choice for all concerned. Thank you.”

Then say whatever it is you have to say with the full extent of your emotions.

When you are complete with your process, say again to Source / Universe: “Whatever it may have looked like, felt like or sounded like, I am to be filled with Light and Love, as are the people I named. Any spaces and places made open and available within me as a result of this process is to be filled with Light and Love. The Universe is to be filled with Light and Love. Any emotions, words, intentions and anything else that I may have expressed are to be lifted to their highest vibration, and Light and Love is to result. Anything that is truly mine in what I released and expressed is to be returned to me as Light and Love, and anything that belongs to anyone else or anywhere else is to be returned to them transmuted into Light and Love. I do and did all this for my highest good, the highest good of the people mentioned, the highest good of all, with free will and free choice for all concerned. Thank you!”

We are in human third-dimensional form, and we benefit from respecting wherever we are at any given moment. Practice this!!

Question: What was your experience when you did “The Protective Prayer” ©?

Feel free to email me at
MoonMystic22@aol.com with your responses, questions and requests for whatever you would like to see in this Blog.

Very soon – we’re targeting next month -- this and other processes will be available to you in both The Mother’s Manual Sampler © and The Mother’s Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood ©, both of which will be available to you as ebooks at
www.TheMothersManual.com .

Much Love,

Mama Heart
Audrye

Audrye is a spiritual therapist, transformational catalyst, mom, grammie, artist, TV personality and author who has held seminars and classes in person, notably in the U.S., Europe, West Africa and the Caribbean. She looks forward to and is creating a transformational peaceful multi-dimensional total global experience for all of us.
www.Achee.org
www.TheMothersManual.com
www.AudryeOmArt.com
www.AudryeNow.tv
MoonMystic22@aol.com
www.blogtalkradio.com/GoddessHeartNetwork

Thursday, January 1, 2009

A Mother's Heart: Birthing Babies and Life

A new year!!! This year, 2009, is an “11,” the Master Visionary. What are your dreams, soul promptings, desires for your life, your family, the world? This is definitely the year to birth these into actuality. Today is sacred. Open to Divine Love everywhere.

How can we birth the Divine and Sacred in our lives? One way is to start with our breath and breathing with intention, attention, love and focus. A simple and highly effective Breathing Attunement is the Four-Part Breath. Imagine the lungs as energy balloons, able to stretch easily. Gently and fully inhale through your nose and direct the breath to your diaphragm, chest, throat and head. Hold gently, then slowly release the breath from your nose, first from the head, throat, chest and diaphragm. Hold without inhaling for a moment. Then inhale and do the same process again for two or more inhalations and exhalations.

Birthing of anything is an exciting, even exotic, experience, always shifting whatever was before. Birthing a baby is a momentous experience, however it occurs. For me, birthing my daughter was via emergency C-section six weeks before the official due date because I was experiencing placenta abruptia, meaning the placenta was leaving my body. My daughter was out in less than an hour. My mom, in long labor with me, told me I was born with forceps.

My daughter birthed her daughter in a totally natural manner, with me as part of her birthing team. For this, I am ever grateful. I was physically unconscious, while my consciousness was undergoing a near-death experience. That’s another blog. You can read all about it in The Mother’s Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood ©, slated for launch as an ebook in February at www.TheMothersManual.com .

For the newborn, birth can be defined as leaving the realm of higher dimensions and entering the third-dimensional physical realm. The infant is clothed both in vernix, actually good for the baby and can be massaged into the baby’s skin, as well an energy of beauty. This is important information, as the vernix is good for the baby's skin and may enhance the baby's immune system.

At this time, the Earth itself is birthing into a higher energy. The Earth is positioning herself to be in the Galactic Center by Dec 21, 2012, which is a time of massive potential frequency shift. At this time, the Shuman Resonance of the planet is lifting. It is vital that we people raise our frequencies so we are operating on a spectrum that includes the fourth and fifth dimensions. If you do the practices discussed in this Blog, you support this shift within yourself

Spirituality and life can be lived powerfully, passionately and peacefully – with lace around the edges, if you choose -- rather than as being folded sedately away in a closet. Everyone was birthed in one way or another. In the days to come, and already upon us, there may be high-tech birthing, such as was described in Aldous Huxley’s Brave New World. I recommend birthing your baby in as natural way as possible, including a water birth, with good preparation plus your team. Having a doula available is a great way to go, as are nurse midwives, who have a special vibration in this life-shifting time. When needed, obstetricians can literally be life savers. Also, if you are on great terms with your mother, having her there is one of the greatest gifts you and she can share. Of course, if your relationship is less than stellar, having someone else present can be preferable.

Question: What is your birth experience? What are you birthing in your life in 2009? Email MoonMystic22@aol.com and share.

For your evolution, transformation and support, The Mother’s Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood ©, already hailed as an amazing masterpiece, will be available as a healing transformational 600-page ebook in February at www.TheMothersManual.com. Get FREE ebook, The Mother’s Manual Sampler © also.

Much Love,

Mama Heart
Audrye


Audrye is a mystic intuitive, transformational catalyst, healer, artist and author who does group and private sessions around the world. She is also a daughter, sister, mom and grammie.
www.AudryeNow.tv
www.TheMothersManual.com
www.AudryeOmArt.com
www.Achee.org

A Mother's Heart: Birthing Life and Babies

A new year!!! This year, 2009, is an “11,” the Master Visionary. What are your dreams, soul promptings, desires for your life, your family, the world? This is definitely the year to birth these into actuality. Today is sacred. Open to Divine Love everywhere.

How can we birth the Divine and Sacred in our lives? One way is to start with our breath and breathing with intention, attention, love and focus. A simple and highly effective Breathing Attunement is the Four-Part Breath. Imagine the lungs as energy balloons, able to stretch easily. Gently and fully inhale through your nose and direct the breath to your diaphragm, chest, throat and head. Hold gently, then slowly release the breath from your nose, first from the head, throat, chest and diaphragm. Hold without inhaling for a moment. Then inhale and do the same process again for two or more inhalations and exhalations.

Birthing of anything is an exciting, even exotic, experience, always shifting whatever was before. Birthing a baby is a momentous experience, however it occurs. For me, birthing my daughter was via emergency C-section six weeks before the official due date because I was experiencing placenta abruptia, meaning the placenta was leaving my body. My daughter was out in less than an hour. My mom, in long labor with me, told me I was born with forceps.

My daughter birthed her daughter in a totally natural manner, with me as part of her birthing team. For this, I am ever grateful. I was physically unconscious, while my consciousness was undergoing a near-death experience. That’s another blog. You can read all about it in The Mother’s Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood ©, slated for launch as an ebook in February at www.TheMothersManual.com .

For the newborn, birth can be defined as leaving the realm of higher dimensions and entering the third-dimensional physical realm. The infant is clothed both in vernix, actually good for the baby and can be massaged into the baby’s skin, as well an energy of beauty. At this time, the Earth itself is birthing into a higher energy. Even the Shuman Resonance of the planet is lifting. It is vital that we people raise our frequencies so that we are operating on a spectrum that includes the fourth and fifth dimensions.

Spirituality and life can be lived powerfully, passionately and peacefully – with lace around the edges, if you choose -- rather than as being folded sedately away in a closet. Everyone was birthed in one way or another. In the days to come, and already upon us, there may be high-tech birthing, such as was described in Aldous Huxley’s Brave New World. I recommend birthing your baby in as natural way as possible, including a water birth, with good preparation plus your team. Having a doula available is a great way to go, as are nurse midwives, who have a special vibration in this life-shifting time. When needed, obstetricians can literally be life savers. Also, if you are on great terms with your mother, having her there is one of the greatest gifts you and she can share. Of course, if your relationship is less than stellar, having someone else present can be preferable.

Question: What is your birth experience? What are you birthing in your life in 2009? Email MoonMystic22@aol.com and share.

For your evolution, transformation and support, The Mother’s Manual, A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Child Rearing and Motherhood ©, already hailed as an amazing masterpiece, will be available as a healing transformational 600-page ebook in February at www.TheMothersManual.com. Get FREE ebook, The Mother’s Manual Sampler © also.

Much Love,

Mama Heart
Audrye


Audrye is a mystic intuitive, transformational catalyst, healer, artist and author who does group and private sessions around the world. She is also a daughter, sister, mom and grammie.
www.AudryeNow.tv
www.TheMothersManual.com
www.AudryeOmArt.com
www.Achee.org